2007-07-07 13:24:48 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
his love has a condition. so i say leave him, to love sombody just because of having something is stupid and a waste of time really.
2007-07-07 13:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need to do what you feel comfortable with doing. This is your body you are talking about and you are the one who has to live with what ever you do. I am getting the assumption that you do not want to do it or you wouldn't be asking, I hope you are not going to let a guy decide for you what you have to do in order to have a relationship. You have to worry about you first in life and only you and if he cant understand that you do not want to do that then he might not be the guy that you want to spend the rest of your life with. It sounds to me like he is too controlling over your body and feelings. I would talk to him and let him know how you feel about it. If the relationship is meant to be something like this that is so minor and petty wont be an issue. If it is an issue I would have second thoughts about staying with him. Love does not discriminate against if you shave or not. With holding sex from you is like a punishment and a warning sign of future problems ahead. I don't believe that one partner should have the right to tell you what you have to do with your own body. Think of it like this, if he is going to not have sex with you now because of that what will happen if you ever got pregnant and gained weight? Or what if you cut your hair a way he didn't like? Just think ahead to your future with him and what this can mean for you if you give in now and don't want to.
2007-07-07 13:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by susan_skinner2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you say "Hit the road Jack" and make sure the door hits him on the way out. Whether you are curious about shaving & want to do it or if you have no interest in doing that he should NOT be making demands. That's conditional love and that's not healthy for a good relationship.
Has he shaved himself or does he just expect you to do it?
2007-07-07 13:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by Larkztongue 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything JUST BECAUSE HE SAYS SO.
1st, ask him to shave as well, cause fair is fair.
2nd, if you want to shave it, then be careful. and while it is shaved, it is very nice, but when it starts to grow back its a *****!
So if you shave, be prepared for the itch and ingrown hairs, they can get pretty infected at times.
3rd, if u want to keep him happy, but don't want to shave, you can always trim it, its just as nice.
also, take note of the answers here; many guys answered that you should kick him to the curb - just thought I'd mention it.
myself; I'd kick him to the curb, get a new bf and THEN shave, and make sure word gets back to him - but then, I'm evil
2007-07-07 13:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by PBnJelly_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what should you do? get a new boyfriend. does he want you to shave completely? or do you just need a trim? general trimming and maintenance is fine, but if he threatens to not sleep with you if you don't shave is totally ridiculous. in my opinion, guys that like girls that shave EVERYTHING off deep down really want to have sex with pre-pubescent girls. my boyfriend thinks it's disgusting and totally unnatural for a grown woman to be totally pube-less and most of my guy friends agree. but like i said, trimming is acceptable. it's just like plucking your eyebrows or shaving your legs, but the time and effort it takes to totally shave is pointless. also think about this- most guys are ready and willing to have sex with their mate at any given moment and for him to hold off on you isn't really doing him any good either. i say don't shave, and if he gets pissy about it, tell him to eff off. I'm sure you can find a mature man that appreciates a mature woman and a mature woman's body. You don't ask him to shave his balls, so should you have to shave your junk? No.
2007-07-07 13:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, this is something that YOU need to decipher. You have to weight your pros and cons with his behavior. Do you feel he's worth it? Do you even want to shave down there?
I don't know what the limitations of your relationships are, but I personally feel it's ok for him to voice his opinion. But if you feel forced, then there lies the problem!
Good Luck!
2007-07-07 16:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by Elle.Morena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reconsider this relationship. If you dont want to shave, you shouldnt have to. Im sure plenty of other ppl would be willing to sleep with you with or w/o hair.
2007-07-07 13:28:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he has such strict expectations and is withholding sex, I would get a new boyfriend. Or tell him you'll shave down there if he shaves down there on himself, and see how he reacts.
2007-07-07 13:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with him asking, but when you say no then that should be the end of it. To demand it though is very childish of him. If he doesn't drop the situation immediately you need to consider whether you want to continue the relationship.
2007-07-07 15:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend. No one should EVER control another person with threats of any kind. Your boyfriend can be replaced as far as "down there" goes.
2007-07-07 13:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If he's THAT shallow, kick the punk to the curb and find a REAL man.
Or hand him some hand cream and some tissue and tell him HAVE FUN DORK!
2007-07-07 17:04:12 · answer #11 · answered by AmericanPatriot 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋