why does this keep happening?

Question

why do i keep getting pregnant? i'm 17 but i have three small kids all a year a part and there is another one on the way. no kind of contraception seems 2 work on me, i don't know what to do, my GP has tried meand my boyfriend on all sorts contraception strong and weak, can anyone figure out y i keep getting pregnant?
im on the edge!

Answer 1

cuase your haveing sex.....?

Answer 2

hi, no contraception is 100% safe!! i know due to conceiving six children over the years, my hubby and i tried everything, i became pregnant whilst taking the contraceptive pill, condoms and pessaries and through using 'safe methods' there is no complete fail-safe, if you have sex then one day you will become pregnant if your body is in full working order- life always finds a way!! i am a bit perplexed though, if this is a genuine story i really feel for you as your body is in need of a massive rest and is under immense strain and you must be shattered physically as well as mentally let alone having care of all those babies!!! it should be more difficult to become pregnant when your body is so stressed. are you breastfeeding? i did not have any periods for at least 7-9 months whilst breastfeeding my babies . i am sorry to say this but i feel this situation may be just a story, when you have a baby after the initial bleeding from the delivery your periods do not return to their normal cycle for some weeks even when bottlefeeding, full breastfeeding with no added bottles will put this off for some months, if you are getting pregnant within three months each time this will allowonly three chances (based on one release of eggs a month) to do this even if your body was normal and not post-pregnant! it has been known for this to happen twice but you are now on baby number four!!! i find it hard to accept!!! best to keep your legs closed or have him castrated!!! if a boyfriend had done this much 'damage' to my young life my dad would have done it for him!!!

Answer 3

Everyone keeps saying to have your tubes tied, but I guess they don't realize that in some states you have to be a certain age to have that done, even with parental consent. If I were you & abstaining from sex wasn't an option, then I would make sure I was on some kind of contraception other than oral, used condoms EVERY time, along with spermicidal jelly. Depo Provera always worked for me, but I know that every woman is different. There are other forms of birth control like IUD's & Norplant. Has the doctor tried any of those or just oral contraceptives?

Answer 4

apart from the obvious stop having sex or have you tried the depo injection or the coil or the implant these are all really good forms of contraception plus you are less likely to get pregnant you are only 17 and a doctor would not even consider sterilising you also you must give the contraception time to work and follow the instructions to the letter also as a final thing your boyfriend could alwasy have a vasectomy and have it reversed later on if anything goes wrong with your relationship have you considered aswell ovulation kits to help predict when you are likely to get pregnant then avoid sex at this time

Answer 5

You have confused me. 5 months ago when you posted the following question (which I have copied & pasted from your questions) you were 15 and there was no mention of other kids. So you have aged 2 years and had 3 kids and are pregnant again all in 5 months. The papers will pay alot of money for that story. Try the Sun they print the best crap.

question 5 months ago.
I`m pregnant but i`m only 15?
im pregnant but im only 15, and my boyfriend dumped me as soon as he found out, and my parents are really stricked about me having boyfriends and i know they will either kick me out or make me have an abortion and i don`t want either to happen.
please, help!


Oh by the way
I'm 36 with 20 kids and number 21 on the way

Answer 6

well, i would figure that after the first one u would cool ur jets, be more responsible, and take care of your child, not go out and party and have sex some more.

at 17, three kids? that would mean that you got pregnant for your first time at the age of 13 or 14. im 15 and i could NEVER imagine how stressful it would be to have1 kid, let alone 3 kids! maybe you should just chill out and abstain for a while, guaranteeing that you wont get pregnant so that you can take care of your kids and get through school

Answer 7

Yikes! Sorry, all I have are words of encouragement. I would say you should be on the pill, have him use condoms, use spermicide, and have with withdraw before fully orgasming. Maybe all that would help, but if you are already on #4 baby, maybe you should just stop having sex for awhile? You're only 17, you're still young. Or you can get your tubes tied when you give birth your next baby. If you are sure you are done, then maybe that would be a good option.

Answer 8

Dunno.If all else fails,try keeping your knees together.Three kids at 17 with another on the way is not good enough.Your GP needs help to sort your family planning issue out!

Answer 9

Your having unprotected sex or not using the condoms correctly. Or your boyfriend poked holes in the condom so his sperm can get to the egg in your fallopian tubes. Or the condom slipped, or leaked or broke while you were having sex. I'd figure that after the first two times of getting pregnant you'd have enough common sense to keep your legs shut.

Answer 10

Well, this is a long shot but - if nothing else works - try not having as much sex around the time you're at your most fertile. If no other contraception works you could also consider sterilization.

Answer 11

I'm sorry Hun ... but your 17 with three kids how the hell do you get time to have sex in the first place use condoms ...don't tell me they don't work either ! failing that keep your legs shut and look after the kids you already have !