My case manager said that my friend isn't a good friend because of something her boyfriend did wrong to me. & also, my CM said my friend shouldn't be allowed in my house anymore. That's my ONLY good friend, & I have no family support at all. & she said that if she catches my friend @ my house, she'll have me put in a group home. Is this unfair or what?
My friend told her boyfriend off about insulting me. She defended me, & my case manager STILL said my friend ALLOWED her boyfriend to disrespect me.
Now my friend & I are both sad, & she felt she had to dump her boyfriend, just to stay my friend, rather than allowing my friend to mediate between me & her boyfriend or try to settle our beef (resentment).
2007-07-07 11:12:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Please check about getting reassigned to another CM. A good one will never threaten you will a group home or anything else.
2007-07-07 14:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are an adult, you are not responsible for another adult's inappropriate behavior. Each adult has to become responsible for themselves. I think your case manager is wrong!
2007-07-07 18:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your friend not only told him he was wrong, she also ended the relationship out of her concern for you...I say keep the friend and dump the case manager
2007-07-07 18:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your case worker is right.She must have told you to stay away from these people for a reason.But if your friend is no longer with her boyfriend,then it's ok.Your case worker is just concerned about your safety.
2007-07-07 19:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by Candi Apples 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As adults we are responsible for our OWN behavior.
2007-07-07 18:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by kim t 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋