Im sure theres good men out there and I hate this body obsessed world we live in! I love the (dove) adverts showing real women, Im not fat, I call myself a large 12 (uk) cos 14 is too big but some 12s are tight, ive had babies and have tumy (flab) to me in the mirror im hideous but I really feel after reading mens oppinions that its fine, do men care REALLY about wobbly bits bums andtums? I dont think the do, lets be WOMEN not loolipop heads and embrace the cruel thing nature impose on us!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-07 11:06:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I know what you are saying and agree.
I am a 43 year old mother and grandmother.
I have been thin, chubby, thin and chubby.
My skin and body is not what is use to be, but that is life.
My man loves me no matter what.
~faith
2007-07-07 12:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Acceptance is good. Just keep repeating that mantra. The truth of the matter is that you will get old one day and die (unless you manage to die as a young and good looking corpse). You will never look like you did when you were 21.
I'm saying this in a matter of fact way because appearance may be important but there are other things that are equally important such as raising your children, caring for your elders, pursuing your career or education, running for public office, or even living life passionately. Trying to achieve the perfect body shape takes up too much life energy that could be used in more constructive ways. Don't wait until it is too late for you to understand this major truth.
2007-07-08 15:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once again i say some of the ugliest people i ever met were the easiest to look at.quite often a size 5 is a size 25 on the biatch scale.
2007-07-07 16:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by "uponthesoapboxagain" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋