self esteem...?

Question

i have been having self esteem problems lately. i dont think i am pretty. do you?

pic: http://i195.photobucket.com/albums/z312/omaillemonkey/crazynight048.jpg


please no rude answers like "your just doing this for attention"ect.

thanks

this is one more

http://i195.photobucket.com/albums/z312/omaillemonkey/newhair010.jpg

try this one i am smiling in it

Answer 1

You are gorgeous girl! :0)

Answer 2

I've been through this stage before. I'm pretty, others told me I was pretty, but inside I never felt that way because I hadn't been that cute as a kid.

Ok, first of all, you're beautiful, but obveously everyone has already told you that. If you're ever having one of those bad days where you don't feel pretty, have a makeover, try on some of your favorite clothes, go to a store and buy a cute top or some little accessory that makes you feel fashionable, or talk with your friends who can assure you that you are not only pretty on the outside , but on the inside as well. Although...you are pretty on the outside too. ; )

Good luck. I'm sure this is just a stage that will pass.

Answer 3

I think everyone goes through this at some time or another. The media these days equate beauty with perfection which is unrealistic and damaging to girls/young women who have low self esteem. To answer your question, yes you are very cute. I'd bet you'd look even prettier though with a smile on your face. A smile and a cheerful attitude sometimes makes all the difference in the world as to how people see you. :)

Oh and btw, looks like you have a great pair of legs too!

Answer 4

You pretty. but you shouldnt post pics of u on the internet. theres lots of scary people out there. Your probably about 13 maybe 14 right? At that age girls feel that way. I never thought i was pretty or whatever until just recently. And I am 24 almost 25. Its apart of growing up and realizing who you are and excepting yourself. Once you do, youll have all the confidence and selfesteem you need. It takes time. ..dont listen to what others may say. Shoot people tell me im fat but i dont care im happy with my chunkyness and bottom line tahts all that matters i have to live with it they dont. Now at 25 i have excepted who i am and love myself. You will get there i promise we all go threw these times its apart of growing up.;

Answer 5

You're far from unattractive.

While low self esteem can be a challenge for any age, it is particularly so for young people.

"Before you can begin to improve your self-esteem you must first believe that you can change it. Change doesn't necessarily happen quickly or easily, but it can happen. You are not powerless! Once you have accepted, or are at least willing to entertain the possibility that you are not powerless, there are three steps you can take to begin to change your self-esteem:" *

2nd link is a self esteem test.

Answer 6

Everyone is pretty in their own way. I personally think you are a cute girl, maybe you just need to open up a bit. Do things that make you feel pretty, cuz when you feel pretty you will look pretty. Always remember that.. I am not kidding. Well I hope I helped.

Answer 7

I haven't looked at the picture and have to intention to look at them.

However, if you're having self-esteem problems, asking someone else to judge you isn't going to help raise it.

My suggestion is to not worry about what others think of you.

Answer 8

You have NOTHING to worry about- you look like a model in a magazine. I'm not lying- I would love to have your looks! You seriously make all of us feel bad. You should have no self esteem problems!

Answer 9

You are very pretty. Don't let others get you down. Don't let YOURSELF get you down. We all go through times of self-doubt. Don't worry about it. Just occupy yourself with different thoughts for a while, go out with some friends, play a game..... just don't think that you are ugly.

Answer 10

You are very pretty but you don't look very happy!
I think all girls go through this anyway.

You have nothing to worry about. I hope this makes you feel better. It sucks having low self esteem.