My son is 26 yrs old we haven't heard or seen him since 1 am and he has never did this before what can i do

Question

as far as the law is concerned

Answer 1

Wow - I moved out of home at 18 and a lot of people I know are married with children at 26. He is not a child anymore and should be able to look after himself. It is sweet that you care so much.. I would wait a while more, if you are getting really worried then call one of his mates (he will be embarassed most likely) but if it stops you worrying?...

Most laws require 24 hours after dissapearing - but given his age this might not be taken too seriously untill after a bit more.

Answer 2

Dear Deb,

Since your son is 26, and I don't know if he lives at home, I don't know if you have REAL cause for your concern. Most law enforcement departments don't want to hear from you until 24, 48, and sometimes 72 hours have passed. My suggestion is that you first call the hospitals. After that, you might get in touch with his friends if at all possible. Tell them that you aren't wanting to get into his business, but that you are concerned because you were expecting to hear from him by 3:00 P.M. (or whatever time you decide). That way when he comes home, he won't feel as if you are dogging his footsteps. Hopefully, he just ran into friends and has had a grand time catching up on old news.

If he still has not come home within the following 24 hours, I would definitely contact the police. Make a list now of who he has been with in the last 72 hours with names and phone numbers. Tell them about his activities and interests. Let them know the names and addresses of people who are special friends. Keep yourselves available to answer any questions they might have.

I'll keep all of you in my prayers. Let us hear that he's home safely.

Hugs, girlfriend.

Answer 3

Wait a couple more hours but start preparing pictures and identifying information for the police. Also what was he wearing last night. Usually, a guy might get drunk and mabe lucky and is sleeping it off. However, he should have recouperated by now. This is not a joke. If this is not normal--follow your gut. I dont mean to alam you, but you better get moving on this. You should have all the info you have handy because it wiil get stressful and be at the police station in an hour or two.

Its better if you go there than wait for them to come to you. I believe there is a 24 -48 hr wait before they do anything but at least they will be aware and can give u some suggestions. Good Luck and let us know what happens

Answer 4

An adult who is not mentally or physically impaired and who disappears for a day is rarely a cause for police concern, unless there's reason to suspect foul play.

I'm under the impression that it's 48 hours before you can file a missing persons report, but I'm not in law enforcement.

The odds are very good he hooked up with someone and is off doing something engrossing, whether it's getting well acquainted with a young woman or something more worrisome that he doesn't want you to know about.

When he returns--and he will--make sure he understands how very worried and upset you were. Tell him of course he can go out and stay out. He's a grown man. But if he varies from his usual routine, you're going to worry unless he tells you in advance or gives you a quick phone call. That's all you need for peace of mind.

Answer 5

The laws might be different where you're from, but I work for police dispatch here and unless he was suicidal or depressed there's not a whole lot that the police will do. What we have here for situations like this is called a "Request To Locate". This is where the information on your son would be broadcasted to all the police officers on the road - his description and vehicle description. That way if the officers happen to see him or his car they'll pull him over and tell him that you're looking for him.
That's about it though.

Answer 6

As it's been said-general rule of thumb for law enforcement is 24hrs. Call your local police to find out what their policies are for your situation.
Now about rest of these the answers..you ask a simple question about what law enforcement procedures for your situation. You did NOT ask for people opinions on your parenting skills:good, bad or indifferent. You didn't ask to be judged either, by a people who I am sure, have behaviors that I am sure are not perfect. I would be nice if people could stick to the specific question and answer it. Wouldn't it be nice if people would work on their own behaviors, instead of judging and pointing out flaws in others. ;)
I hope you hear from your son soon. Everyone needs a little time to themselves, hopefully that's what he is doing :)

Answer 7

Your son is an adult but if you are that concerned call his friends. I think the police are going to tell you to wait alittle.

Frankly if something has happened to him, someone will contact you eventually.

I think from your tone that you aren't all that concerned but are angry because your son didn't come home last night. I will assume he is able to support himself(not handicapped in some fashion requiring anothers assistance). In that case, you need to encourage your adult son to move out on his own and you need to get another hobby.

Answer 8

as far as the law is concerned, if he's 26, theres probably nothing you can do. if he's missing for more than 36 hours or something like thta, you can file a missing person report.

Answer 9

Nothing until 1am today..24 hours and you can file a missing persons case. But, I must add, at 26, don't you think you just may be more than a caring parent???? Sounds downright clingy to me.

Answer 10

hi threre the law states that someonme missing after 24hrs then they will take note of the missing person ......unless there are severe reasons like medical or otherwise .....phone the hospitals in youre local area or where he said he was going last ........but remember he is an adult and im sure he wi9ll get in contact soon ....take care xx