Ok hes started calling me fat on a few of his messages and I'm getting really upset cos I know I'm average size but I used to have problems with anorexia when I was younger.
Am I wrong to feel bad about this guy or would you consider this too far? I've had a really bad week and I just don't think he should be allowed to speak to me like this, what do you think?
2007-07-07 09:25:36 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Please leave me alone timecop
2007-07-07 09:31:54 · update #1
How do I put him on ignore?
2007-07-07 09:38:25 · update #2
get over it , he has never even met you so why do his words bother you.
he is a first class twonk and not worth a thread devoted to him , if you ignore him he will go and bother somebody else like all bullies do
he clealry gets a kick out of insulting people , he has greater issues than you ever will have hun
god bless
2007-07-07 12:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Karl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally don't think that anyone has the right to tell you what size you should be unless they're a doctor or nutritonist and i don't think he is. so yea he's goin too far. we all have a size that is appropriate for our body type and what's right for one might not be right for the other. also seeing that in most cases aneroxia stems from other issues like low self esteem and so on ( i don't know your situtation so i'm not judging but this is most often the case) i don't think time cop is helping by continuing to make you feel more insecure about yourself. just ignore him. it takes somene with REALLY low self esteem themselves to bring another person down especially when we're talking about adults. so maybe time cop just really needs to grow up.
2007-07-07 09:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by candyapple1219 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rachel,
You're giving him and the rest of his Troll buddies, exactly what they want. If you haven't yet figured out what they want, lemme break it down for you.
What a troll wants:
to insight anger/ piss u off
to draw attention to them (which u did really nicely)
to create a frenzy and de-rail serious conversation
to play with your emotions (control u)
to toy with you, like a puppet on a string
I could go on, but hopefully u get the point.
If you don't like someone, ignore them.
If they seriously persist, and cross the line, block them, that's what that feature is for.
YOU are positioning yourself as TROLL FOOD, feeding them exactly what they crave, get it?!
2007-07-07 11:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Once a bully finds your weak or sensitive point you can't stop the bully from attacking there again and again.
Boys learn this lesson young, so we learn how to never show weakness......then later on spend years learning to feel and be honest again.
As for you, best move might be to resolve your personal body-image issues so his childish comments don't bother you.
Good luck.
2007-07-07 10:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by Richard of Fort Bend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rachel... why are you so bothered by the opinion of ONE man? So what if you have some meat on your bones... maybe thats why you give such good answers.. not like those egotistical chicks who think the sun rises and sets on them.
Curvey sounds nice to me.. as long as the curves are in the right places
2007-07-07 09:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry for answering this question, i'm a man, he is well out of order, speaking as i am, as an english man.
don't ever give two f###s about what people say. only ever trust family and friends. if you've suffered with a mental illness, it's best not to talk to morons, because they not got a scooby doo
2007-07-07 14:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by pfc123darkknight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his ***, put him on ignore cause you don't need anyone telling you that you are fat. You don't need anyone in your life to make you feel bad. He has the problem not you so say goodbye pig.
2007-07-07 09:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by edandsarahmae02 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore him. some men just can't take the truth or accept that they r young. besides he's only acting tough because he's behind a computer. If u feel good about yourself ignore him.
2007-07-07 09:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by WonderWoman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flag him for abuse, he shouldn't make any pointed statements towards you. This is an open forum, so technically you're not supposed to call anyone out. (This would include your post as well...)
2007-07-07 11:12:00 · answer #9 · answered by Kirby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why speak to the guy at all? He's clearly an idiot, and not worth your time.
2007-07-07 09:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋