Why do unattractive men hate women?

Question

It always seems to be the unattractive guys who have a problem with women, maybe they are hurt and bitter that they can't get one?

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I think most people can see that my question is intended to highlight the amount of bitter men in gender and women's studies who persistantly put women down for their apperance, you are making women feel depressed, hurt and so worthless that we no longer want to exist.

I just want my question to make you think about what you are saying and what it is like to be labelled as unattractive.

Answer 1

So true! We often hear some guys saying "women are heightist!" or "women's standards are too high!" or "women buy into that Prince Charming fantasy!"

The sad thing is, they base their opinions of all women solely upon the actions of one or two that they know! They don't think about the good things they've seen in women and assume that all women are caring or strong or intelligent. They always seem to be looking for negativity.

If they get turned down by a woman, then she MUST be a "heightist", a "lesbian", or a "*****." Now, it's as though we don't have the right to be uninterested!

Nevermind the fact that a lot of men I know, especially in this college town, have ridiculously high expectations.

Answer 2

Lol, this is actually kind of funny. Now of course you have men that objectify women, but you also have women that use men. A man (or woman) can only do what you let them, I have many male friends that I have never and will never have sex with... What is it that they want from me besides friendship? I'm not giving them anything nor have I ever gave them the idea that I wanted more than a friendship... But they stick around. They hold doors open for me, pay my way (Most times) when we go out to movies or dinner... Even if we go as a group. They call and check on me. Then there are men I don't even know personally. Whenever I'm out, I can pretty much always count on the guy that's in front of me to hold the door open whether he's young or old. I remember just last week my mother and I went to the movies, we were going through the door and a guy that was INSIDE already saw us through the glass and he went out of his way to open it for us. This man I'm sure was not attracted to my mother or me... But he did something just to be nice. I'm brown skinned, I am not stick thin, I don't have blonde hair, and I'm an A cup. If this was your way of bashing men, then you failed miserably. Also, I have seen more snobby women let the door close on people who are in wheel chairs or are even pushing baby strollers than I have men.

Answer 3

Hate is a harsh word. Hatred comes from a lot of things everyone has their own specific reasons. Lies are the probably biggest hurdle for any guy to get over. Trust is another and belief is lower down the line. Girls love to talk to each other about their new friends this causes the oneupmanship trap. Men gloat about their girlfriends as they also live with possibility of losing to one of their friends.
Why men hate girls/women? Is because women take control of whatever the guy is trying to do. His part is removed without his consent. After all he's done his part and the woman takes over completly - takes over his finances, his working hours, his spending money, his entire life - surely this is not life?
Men would do better to pay the hog and ride her and be done with it rather then trying to live with a thief of all things and who doesn't listen to a word being said.

Answer 4

No.. its not just the unattractive men. you don't have to be ugly to have mental issues. But I think some of the women are too sensitive. I don't hate women at all, but a lot of women here claim I do. I just say whats on my mind and its not always politically correct or what women want to hear.

Answer 5

I also think you are generalizing. Maybe some unattractive men dislike women because they have been rejected too much. I know very attractive men that seem to hate women. The smart so-called "unattractive" man makes himself more attractive by using all his attractive qualities to captivate women. You may be balding, puny, fat, or even have an ugly thing going on, but if a guy is smart, funny and nice he has it all over the the "attractive" men.

Answer 6

I don't think that just goes for the unattractive ones. Some men just hate women whether they are attractive or not, but I have heard and run into men like that and will never understand why they feel that way??

Answer 7

Maybe you are confusing hate for some who are just upset at what is going on in the world with laws and stuff that is put into place to undermind are sex and thus make things harder on us because of our sex. i have seen plenty of women use it just because they didn't like a certain guy talking to them and asking them out for date. you tell me is that not unlawful use of the law........... o never mind i already know your answer. and no I'm not unattractive nor have i had this happen to me and got a permanent record of it now....... but i have had to give it out and thus rune a guys life over what you tell me huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu/

Answer 8

Maybe it is that the women treat the unattractive men extremely poorly based solely on their looks. If a group of people are mean to you for so long, you eventually begin to get angry at them. It's a natural response.

Answer 9

It does not seem that way to me. It is not wise to generalize because generalizations do not lead to the truth. In truth, so called "unattractive" women tend to be resentful toward so-called "attractive" women. And, "unattractive" men tend to be resentful toward "attractive" men. Men who hate women do not hate them because of their looks. They hate women for other reasons related to issues involved with their own emotional diseases. Think about it. Whenever you see a man whom you perceive as too "attractive" to be interested in "plain ole you", you don't hate him. You continue to desire him and don't blame him for the disparency.

Answer 10

b/c its one owns personality, not all unattractive men hate women.