I posted this question before but instead of helping me, people kept critisizing my culture, but that's not what I need. I need a clear answer to my question, please.
I heard that the hymen opening can get "wider" by reaching orgasm by masturbation (external masturbation, without inserting anything inside vagina).
Is that true? knowing that I am a virgin and my hymen is intact because I never had sex and never used tampons because in my culture girls have to bleed on their wedding night! It's a matter of death or life.
Please Help!
2007-07-07 07:45:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Unless you are using something LARGE to masturbate with and inserting it all the way up into your vagina, then you are not going to break your hymen. No, it does NOT stretch.
2007-07-07 07:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not true. The hymen opening gets a little wider if you're aroused but it will get back afterwards. No orgasm can make the opening wider.
If you're a virgin and you know that your hymen is intact, you shouldn't worry anymore, because you'll get that little blood on the sheet on your wedding night.
2007-07-07 08:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by DianaMC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true. Stop asking the same question, it is against the rules!
Not ALL virgins bleed the first time they have sex! The hymen often breaks before a girl even thinks about it! (Tampons DON'T break the hymen)
2007-07-07 11:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never heard of this before and im a gramma raising a 12 year old granddaughter that uses tampons, im quite sure her hymen is still intact. having an orgasm by masturbation is perfectly safe and healthy. check on a sexual health web site for more professional advice. hope this helps, try to ignore people with small minds.
2007-07-07 07:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by Donna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I don't know the answer to your question, maybe this will help to put your mind at ease.
An injury, such as falling on the crossbar of a bicycle, can break the hymen. So prepare your husband.
Secondly, probably most women have probably masturbated prior to marriage, even in your culture. They just don't talk about it. But they didn't get killed by their husbands or anyone else for it.
So you going to be okay. Really.
The best to you.
Kelley
2007-07-07 07:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hymen can come apart with out sexual intercourse occurring as for that if it so serious i would refrain from masturbating until i was married. Besides if the man you are with trusts you, if you say you are a virgin, hymen or no hymen your word should be good enough.
2007-07-07 07:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rode horses daily for years, which can rupture your hymen, used tampons since I was 14, and had orgasms, but I still bled on my wedding night. My guess is that you will be fine.
2007-07-07 07:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by tsoto_soto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to get a compassionate answer because life or death depending on whether you bleed or not on your wedding night is against the law and a horrid strike against human rights.
If you want help, get legal help. Not Yahoo where no one can really help you. You have to help yourself.
If you want to bleed, why don't you get married when your period is due?
2007-07-07 07:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's 1/2bh. [ Base times Height, Divided by 1/2 ] Emily; Length times Width time Height- is how you find the volume of a figure.
2016-05-20 23:10:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only gets wider while you're aroused. It doesn't stay wider.
I feel sorry for you because a girl can lose her virginity in other ways.
I lost mine as a child when I crashed my bike into a fence. Yep...that was dumb because I was on a boys bike and I really wrecked myself that day I can tell you.
2007-07-07 07:52:05 · answer #10 · answered by Nancy M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋