4 months ago i weighed 74 kg im 5ft 3 so was over weight,my boyfrined was always saying "oh i love you how you are" but i wanted to diet for myself
i have gone down to 54kg and still want to lose a bit more but am hap;pie4r with myself more than i was. my boyfriend says now"oh your so much sexier now" but everytime i eat he watches me makin glittle comments like"oh thats bad for you" even i i only had it was a tea spoon on rice.i dont eat big meals,i dont really eat meals at all its more like loads of water and salad for tea. if i have anything different he comments and today we had a bbq and i had a chicken drumstick x2 and a bannana, just a minute i was looking at the new cerial i got the kids and just made a comment that it looks nice and he pocked my belly saying "dont you think youve eaten enough"?
i meen what am i supposed to do?
would you say 54kg is really fat? my hips are 35 inch waist 28 inches.is this big.if he loved me just the way i was then whats his problem?
2007-07-07 07:22:17 · 10 answers · asked by sammydeea 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
if i say something to him about his comments he says things like "oh i didnt meen to offend you,i was just joking,"i explain his jokes arnt funny,he says sorry but does it again.i can pretend it dont get to me to him but it does big time.i feel grose now with this big fat bannana resting in my tummY!!
2007-07-07 07:31:38 · update #1
No thats not fat and sorry but your boyfriend is being very rude. Start pointing out his "Flaws" and see how he likes it. Don't change yourself for anybody..if you are happy then thats all that matters!
2007-07-07 07:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take that from my boyfriend. You are not overweight and it sounds to me like you are eating healthy. One of life's pleasures is to eat. Life is too short. You eat what you want in moderation and you will be okay. You already know how to lose the weight. Tell him you do not appreciate his comments and if he doesn't like it - Too Bad.
Good Luck to you!!!
2007-07-07 07:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by Sherbear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on your weight loss, and no, you're not over-weight. Dump the guy, he wants to control you. Do you want to put up with his comments for the rest of your life?
2007-07-07 07:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to him. Keep doing it for youself. You should not judge yourself based on someone elses opinion. Good for you for losing all that weight, you sound like you eat just fine.
2007-07-07 07:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by Purplevisions 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump his a**! Any one that makes you feel that way should not be in your life. If you are happy with yourself then you need to find someone who accepts you thin or fat. Good Luck!!
2007-07-07 07:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by reeni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the problem, it is HIS problem. Do you really want it to be yours. Tell him to knock it off or hit the road. Your doing this for you NOT him. He has over stepped his bounds.
2007-07-07 07:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by MaY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is his huge male ego. dump his a s h and get someone that excepts you 4 you
2007-07-07 07:27:44 · answer #7 · answered by don 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not fat-(I love women who are about your size).
2007-07-07 07:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ease your fears. have a cookie wookie.
2007-07-07 07:25:49 · answer #9 · answered by LordVader 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is an as s
2007-07-07 07:29:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋