He doesnt behave at all...he always argues and wants the last word!!
2007-07-07 05:30:39 · 35 answers · asked by ?unknown? 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Send him to bootcamp
2007-07-07 05:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by TINKERBELL 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm guessing your son is a teenager. Welcome to the world of teens. There is no answer to your question, if there were parents would be taking out second mortgages to pay for the answer. So, all I can tell you is stand your ground and don't back down. Hopefully, your son will grow out of this and in the end will learn that all you wanted was to do what is best for him. There is a saying: At 10 years old you are the smartest person in the world, at 16 you are the dumbest person in the world, and when your son is 25, you will once again become the smartest person in the world once again. Good luck.
2007-07-07 05:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you introduced the belt? lol Depends on what to do, I don't believe in what mentors say, most of them say that you have to talk to them real nice and yeah, that's pretty stupid now, you think about it and when has talking real nice really work, you have to be agressive because then they will talk back and get into drugs into the future like most kids, I live with dad and stp. mom, I behaved and got my *** whooped when I was young and throughout my teen years didn't talk back to my dad and graduated, my stp moms kids talk back and don't listen to her and none have graduated 2 out of 3 and the third, well she has only 20 credits throughout her freshman year!!!
2007-07-07 05:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's standing up for his beliefs BUT only because you've brought him up freely- you have to lay down rules and give him consequences
eg - If you say back lip I'll take your tv out of your room for 2 days...if he does...you take the tv out!
I dont mean to sound harsh but my eldest son was the same - I treated him like a friend and not a parent....its only at 18 years old am I teaching him the boundaries!
My mistake, I thought I was being a good parent
2007-07-07 05:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoop him. It only took me getting whooped once to learn to behave. My grandparents even made me pickout the hickory stick that i got whooped with. Maybe you should do the same, he'll learn.
Also, watch Supernanny, apparently she's got some good ideas for unruly kids other than whooping.
2007-07-07 05:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well it could be a few things
he may want attention so you will have to completely ignore him all the time, or give him way too much attention meaning absolutely no privacy until he gives up
he may have learned it from you so he's just following what you have done so you'll have to set a good example
and he may just be a jerk and you're on your own for that solution
2007-07-07 05:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by edboy558 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you stopped calling him JackButt and started raising him instead of belittling him, he would respect you and listen. I wonder where he learned to want the last word... hmmmm?
2007-07-07 05:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by Susan L 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
sounds like JackButt needs "the belt"
2007-07-07 05:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by neverdugdisco 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
DEPENDING ON HOW OLD THE CHILD IS DEPENDS ON THE WAY YOU DISCIPLINE HIM. IF A TODDLER THEN TIME OUT A MINUTE PER AGE. HE HAS TO STAY THERE WITH OUT GETTING UP BEFOE TIME STARTS. IF HE OR SHE IS SAY 6-12 A FAVORITE TOY, TV, STERO, NOT ALLOWED TO PLAY WITH FRINDS AND FOR OLDER KIDS RESTRICTION NO CAR PRIVLEDGES ETC..
2007-07-07 05:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dicipline. take things away that he likes till he can learn to behave, stand him in the corner, or sit him in a chair for each time he yells or screams add 1 minute to it. It's one minute for each age to stand them or sit them in the corner.
2007-07-07 05:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by JBWPLGCSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your son is missing something try to find out what it is and spend more time with your son the time probably will change how he behave
2007-07-07 05:37:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋