My wife filed for divorce.I moved out state to get away and clear my head.We had a non contested divorce.I did leave my 20k tool box and tools in her garage because i had no where to take them at the time. Last monday i found out she left her job and then found out she had moved three days later.I drove out to AZ. to see if my tool box was there and the new tenants were already moved in the house.She took my 20k tool box and tools ! None of the nieghbors saw anything but a U-Haul truck on Sat. and she didn't say anything to them..How can i find her ? no one in her family will talk to me. She has vanished. And im upset to say the least.
2007-07-07
05:01:08
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Rodger M
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Family & Relationships
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I spent 25 years building that tool collection.She told me i could leave it there until i got settled.She gave me no indication she was moving.Very deceptive and cunning..
2007-07-07
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Is it really the tool box and tools that you are so upset over? Probably not. That's just my openion,of course. But I think that when you found out your wife had just packed up and moved It probably hit you harder than what you are willing too admit. But you need too move on, because even if you found your ex-wife the tools no doubt are gone. If my ex left stuff when he moved out and I desided too move I wouldn't give it a second thought about getting rid of it! The same would go for you also if you think about it. So..move on, start a new life, go buy a new toolbox and start buying new tools and think of it as starting a new life!! You'll feel better once you do.
2007-07-07 06:22:20
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answered by Rose T 2
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I guess next time when you get a divorce, you'll remember to have your lawyer put in the divorce papers that you get your tools back. She's gone and so are the things you left behind. You have no claim any longer.
2007-07-07 12:06:37
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answered by Kyle 6
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Use a people finder service. Since you were married, you have everything you could possibly need - if your memory sucks, reference an old tax form. You might have to wait awhile before she makes a blip on the radar at a new address... but she will probably get phone service, utilities, etc... ASAP.
2007-07-07 12:08:18
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answered by Sammy 3
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Cut your losses and move on. Tools are replaceable. Don't dwell too much on the past. You have your whole life ahead of you.
2007-07-07 12:04:31
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answered by Anonymous
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Well I suggest you move on. I doubt even if you found her she would give you the tools. Besides she may have already sold them.
2007-07-07 12:03:44
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answered by hsmommy06 7
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does she have a cell phone number that she told you? If so, call her cell!'
but maybe she purposely took your tools because you guys are divorced and she wants to take anger out on somethng. I think she already sold the tools, just buy new ones if you can't find her~!
g.l. (good luck!)
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2007-07-07 12:04:05
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answered by ? 5
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Obviously your 20k tool boxes weren't that important to you when you left, why are they important to you now.
This is the price you pay for rash decisions.
2007-07-07 12:04:06
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answered by Anonymous
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That truly was to be mean. Just be glad you are well rid of her. With time, your beloved toolbox will become a sad memory of the past. Better things are in store for you.
2007-07-08 22:57:22
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answered by franj 2
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i would rec. getting into website to locate people, you might have to pay a suscription but its worth it, 20k in tools, i would go this way. Good luck man!
2007-07-07 12:04:57
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answered by luispalma13 2
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