I caught my bf cheating and he is going to let me kick him in the balls..
Here is the question, how hard should i kick, how many times, and should i use my tennis shoes?
Do you have any suggestions or real life stories of hiting a guy there?
Should I break up with him after kicking?
2007-07-07 04:47:10 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why lower yourself to his level?
Kick him out of your life and move on..
Swollen balls recover in a small amount of time. Broken hearts take longer!
2007-07-07 05:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by AlleycatJo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Carly, I have for the first time lol reading a question. Your last line is serious, but it's the funniest ending to a question I have read. (Still smiling)... Look, I think the "punt the balls" idea is bad for two reasons: 1. You can damage his testicles seriously enough for that he is incapable of producing sperm; 2. You may be legally liable if there is permanent damage (even with his permission). I did not list the fact that it will hurt alot, because I guess that is the whole point. A real life story is that even with protection, I got kicked there during a Tae Kwon Do practice. I can't imagine how it would have felt without the cup!
I assume he is presenting himself as a "testicle sacrifice" to show how sorry he is for cheating. So, maybe he is sorry and you may be able to save the relationship. Here are a few general guidelines to help you decide. Consider forgiving him if these three are all true: 1. He is younger than 24 years; 2. he does not have a history of cheating; and, 3. he otherwise treated you well. Consider a break up with him if any of these are true: 1. You probably won't trust him again; 2. he has cheated before; or, 3. he does not meet all of your "must have" criteria for a long-term relationship.
So, please don't kick him, even if you feel he deserves it. Think of it this way, he had a chance to make a mature choice about relationships, and he blew it. His poor decision has placed his relationship future with you in your hands. That is the risk of cheating--consequences. Now, it is your turn to make a mature decision. This is one of many life decisions ahead of you. I think his choice frees you to decide what is BEST FOR YOU. Think about it, decide, do it, and live with your decision. Take care.
DP
2007-07-07 05:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-04 03:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by lago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 06:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by bedlion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget about kicking him and just break up. A kick in the 'nads maybe physically painful but not emotionally or psychologically painful like betrayal is.
2007-07-07 06:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by mikey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ew I knew a guy who had to have one of his testicles surgically removed because a girl kicked him there. Seriously, if you're that angry (cause you don't hurt people you truly love) then it's probably better to end the relationship. Kicking a guy in the balls for revenge? That's soooo Junior High.
2007-07-07 04:52:19 · answer #6 · answered by TxsWitchWAB 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah But why with tennis shoes kick him with heels and hard an hell yeah dump him once a cheater always a cheater.
Oh if u hit him there hell probably pass out
2007-07-07 04:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by A G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right. Don't bother with the kicking. Just break up with him. Show that you're the mature one. That will hurt him more.
2007-07-07 04:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by djruffin614 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I've had experience with cheating bf. My advice is to just walk away. You don't have to deal with that kind of people you know. Selfish and immature, Backing away doesn't mean you're losing. Just leave him. You don't need that kind of people in your life. Plus leaving him is the beginning of many good things to come. Good luck!
2007-07-07 04:52:32 · answer #9 · answered by Ana Baizura 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
(((((( Back away from the balls!!! ))))))
Alright Girlfriend, leave the man balls alone.
Instead of physical abuse just leave. Why invest your time and energy into something that is only going to be temporarily? Make things more permanent...get to steppin', never to return. You deserve better!
Be blessed.
2007-07-07 05:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by Decent 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋