Be honest. Have you ever cheated? Ever been tempted to?
2007-07-07 03:17:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes and Im sorry but I did it and will probably do it again and again . I cant control it . Its like its in my DNA!
2007-07-07 03:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by wishingstar5555 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I like to think that I almost did it.
I was mad at my husband, I mean VERY MAD.
So I accepted an invitation for a drink, from someone that I knew long before my husband, but due to the drink and light conversation relaxed me I backed up on time.
Actually I'm sure if I had left the bar with other intentions than to go home I would never done it anyway, because when I would have gotten to the "serious part" I would have missed my husbands way of go into that stuff.
2007-07-07 10:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
never ever ever ever cheated. i would be cheating an entire family and would be concerned about my loss of self -control. i have felt attracted to others-but would never act on it and try to realize where the attraction is coming from. I need a date with y hubby - I'm taking my life fro granted- I'm not spending time with my spouse- I'm emotionally idealizing this person and its taking my heart away from my husband . most people will find after they cheated that if they put that much effort into their actual marriage it would have been amazing. yo have to cultivate and maintain love-its not always easy and entails hard work. also the excitement of a new love will never compare emotionally or physically to an old love with stress involved. BU THAT'S; TAKING THINGS FOR GRANTED AND THERE IS BENEFITS WHEN A NEW LOVE GROWS OLD-. I heard a speaker saying romance is a conscious pursuit of effort without expecting. so bring back love by making an effort into you marriage
2007-07-07 10:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never have and never been tempted but i have thought what it would be like.My husband cheated on me and i made a promise to myself that i would never hurt him the way he hurt me. I was so broken up inside i prayed to God to not let me wake up the next morning because i couldn't stand the pain.Unless you have been cheated on you have no idea the severity of it so it's hard to explain or to make you really understand.
2007-07-07 12:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people are tempted at some time, I believe, whether married or in a long term relationship.
2007-07-07 11:43:49 · answer #5 · answered by dark_amaranth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I have not ever cheated on my wife of over 15 years. However as somebody has already mentioned above, temptation is everywhere. You just have to remember why it was that you married your spouse in the first place.
2007-07-07 10:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No never have. I've been on the other side of it tho so I know what it feels like to be cheated on but she's out the door now and I feel alot better.
2007-07-07 10:44:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. There are always people that come along that you are attracted to but that doesn't mean you get involved with them. And the longer you are true to your spouse, the more meaningful your lovelife becomes, to the point where no passer-by could ever hold a candle to your spouse. They just don't have anything to offer.
2007-07-07 10:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by ready4sea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never cheated, never been tempted...... If you are married and your spouse satisfies you in the way that mine does you will not have a problem.
2007-07-07 10:20:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No i have never cheated and i never been tempted to. I LOVE my husband and never want to hurt him i would never cheat i'd rather take a brutual beating than cheat!!!!!!!
2007-07-07 11:33:21 · answer #10 · answered by little lou lou 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope I would die of guilt 100 times. My husband fullfills every need I have, and is a true blessing.
2007-07-07 10:23:39 · answer #11 · answered by ™Tootsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋