me and my gf have stopped using condoms, she's on the pill and we're both happy not to use condoms (we know about preventing STD's etc. and we're both clear. When I worea condom I would ejaculate inside her, but now I don't wear one she wants me to pull out and ejaculate outside her vagina. I've asked her but she just says she prefers it. Why?
2007-07-07 00:52:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
as a woman is feels nice to have the whole thing going on so to speak. But if your gf does not like it then respect her wishes. By the recent standard of your last questions she is very understandiung to your needs. Yes
2007-07-08 00:27:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been using condoms 4 the last 2 months and havent had a problem til yesterday the condom broke so im thinking of getting put on the pill but i really dont want 2 go 2 the doc and have an exam done but condoms are 97%effective birth control is 99. somethin %
2016-05-20 05:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c the pill is only effective to a certain degree. I would continue to use condoms if you don't want to raise the chance of having a child, the pull out method is not always effective either. For example, my boyfriend and I were using the pull out method and now I'm 21 weeks pregnant. So be responsible...good luck!
2007-07-07 03:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ProudMomma♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hm.. I'm a girl, and I can't understand that way of thinking. Surely the orgasm taking place inside you is the whole point of not using a condom - it feels better and it's emotionally different too. But we can't answer for why your girlfriend feels the way she does - only she can do that.
The only thing that ocurrs to me is perhaps a comfort thing - if you do ejaculate inside her and she then gets up and walks around, it can all run out again and be a bit messy... maybe she prefers a wet patch in the bed to that.
2007-07-07 00:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anna 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it just seems silly to me that she lets you not wear a condom but makes you pull out before you come. I'm sure you know that you excrete 'pre-***' during intercourse which potentially can impregnate her (i know she's on the pill, but nothings ever 100%.). Also if you came too quickly, then you'd be back to square one.
Go back to wearing a condom, at least then you can ejoy yourselves and not have to worry about pulling out in time!
Also if you came too quickly, then you'd be back to square one.
xx
2007-07-08 18:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by J xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm girl and I can perfectly undertsand her.I'm doing the same(i dont let my boyfriend finish in me even i'm on pills).Some women got pregnant even they were on pillls.So..i wanna be absolutely sure I dont get pregnant.She's just carefl and you should be happy for it.If you wanna finish inside her,wear a condom!
2007-07-07 10:12:49 · answer #6 · answered by **Diana** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there is still a chance she can became pregnant as the pill is not 100% i would go back using the condom as well
2007-07-07 00:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by ALLY R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pill isn't 100% effective and she believes that doing this will help prevent pregnancy. (A woman CAN get pregnant from pre***, so be careful).
2007-07-07 05:09:55 · answer #8 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because ur c u m could get inside her and one of ur little men could meet her egg and she could get pregnant. i also believe that the pill takes a few months before it starts working, so i think that u should still be using a condom
2007-07-07 01:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have no idea why she prefers that, unless fear of a surprise pregnancy.
My sister was on the pill throughout her first marriage and never had any surprises.
Pulling out really sucks!
2007-07-07 01:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by tombollocks 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋