help me, I was quiet one day and he phoned me and asked what was wrong and presumed straight away that I had done something wrong like. The he is like I have a disgustiong thought in my head about you having sex with someone else and I've been crying and hurting at the fact he believes it.
His family hate me now and I haven't even done anything wrong, I can't talk to anthony now because he actually believes I would hurt him the second time round and now when I cry im saying sorry for something I haven't even done like.
2007-07-07 00:34:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Renting & Real Estate
You will probably get a better response if you list it in the Proper section. good luck. Make him believe you or he is not worth it.
2007-07-13 14:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by bluebinjulie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um he either has cheated you and likes the new women and just wants to use that as an excuse to leave you, or he is just a jerk. Either way you cant lose something you never had.
On the other hand you said "I can't talk to anthony now because he actually believes I would hurt him the second time round". SECOND TIME? Hmmm maybe you did something before. In that case you cant blame him. Either way, move on you deserve better and you cant keep reliving your mistake.Unless it was his father, or brother, or best friend. Then, (Well my Mother told me, "If you cant say something nice, dont say nothing at all") so Im sticking to that. Although I was firm and to the point and you may not agree, I still say I had the best answer..
2007-07-10 14:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by sircarpediem 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Explain to him what you have just explained. Let him know he has really hurt you. Trust plays a major part in relationships, and he clearly does not trust you. I am not blaming you at all Honey, i think he has maybe been hurt by someone else in the past, maybe an ex cheated on him and he finds it difficult to trust. Tell him he should be trying to cheer you up when your upset or just quiet, not making false assumptions and accusations. Let him know as your boyfriend, he should be trying to find out why you were quiet and so make you feel better, instead of assuming something so terrible that's not true. You need to have a serious talk with him, or even write him a letter expressing what you feel. Good Luck
2007-07-07 00:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
He really needs to sort himself out, he's incredibly insecure.
Personally, I don't think you should carry on seeing him if he's going to be like this. I can understand completely why you're upset.
If you do want to be with him, you really need to make him aware that this is his problem, and offer to help him. Also, make sure he knows that it is completely unacceptable for his family to think you've done something wrong when you haven't.
Maybe he needs to see a professional? Some trauma in the past has made him this way, probaby being cheated on previously, or possibly being abandoned or ignored as a child.
2007-07-07 00:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by adacam 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He has problems, specially insecurity. Move on, avoid a tormented relationship. If he is doing this now imagine later on. There should be a trust in a relationship, and this should be the happiest moments.
2007-07-14 12:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was looking for a reason (any reason) to get rid of you. Consider yourself lucky an kick that guy to the curb. Interest yourself in educational endeavors, hobbies, church organizations and forget that bum. Look, if he's jealous and miffed for absolutely no reason at all just think how much worse it would be had you married him. ewwww.
2007-07-13 10:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u are innocent and can't convince your boyfriend that your telling the truth then u shouldn't be torturing yourself over it....he's just gonna accept your honesty or just move on with your life cause it ain't worth the suffering...
2007-07-14 19:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by shaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has some emotional issues to sort out. Tell him you have done nothing wrong and if he doesn't believe it you are going to have to finnish with him. If you don't have trust theres no point continuing.
2007-07-07 00:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by Susan T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps he read the list of questions you have previously asked and is understandably suspicous.
If he is looking at questions you ask, I doubt he will be duped by hiding this in renting and real estate.
2007-07-13 03:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by simplesimon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go on the Jeremy Kyle show and get a lie detector test.
2007-07-10 00:17:55 · answer #10 · answered by Catwhiskers 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋