Would u respect his honesty and forgive him, or.........?!
2007-07-06 23:21:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if my bf is really honest then i'll forgive him...im only human and he's only human, too...nobody's perfect...
2007-07-06 23:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by rhupa_r 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, he didn't have sex unconsciously. His having been drunk is just a pathetic excuse for his bad behavior. Alcohol is nothing more than courage in a bottle. Why do you want to be with someone who gets drunk, anyway? Every time a person gets drunk, they kill something like 10,000 brain cells. Which is why bad alcoholics have some of their brains eaten away. Is it because you want someone like this?
2007-07-07 12:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard you and has created a lot of confusion.
Your bf has failed you by being drunk, being unfaithful and exposing himself (and possibly you) to sexually transmitted disease. Can he say he used safe sex?
He has failed himself when he allowed him self to get drunk, seek another experience and carry it out.
Drinking is not an excuse and worse, by removing inhibition, allows people to act true to their nature. Your bf has shown what drinking frees him to do.
If you love him and a committed to him then some serious conversation around his attitudes, future behaviour and self-care needs to take place.
If you already had doubts about your relationship, then it may be time to re-consider.
One last thought, an unconscious person cannot participate as an active partner in a sexual act.
Do you believe him?
Peter
2007-07-07 07:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by Peter H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U can forgive him if u want. But honest he's not I bet he knew what he was doing. If ur so drunk that u was unconscious it wouldn't get hard.
2007-07-07 11:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by Davweso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant have unconscious sex, plus how would he have known if he was unconscious he got drunk, cheated lied i wouldnt forgive him but i will kick his sorry *** out, he may not remember all the details of what happened last night but at the time he new what he was doing
2007-07-07 07:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by angelz@princess265 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would respect his honesty but no I would not forgive him because being drunk is not an excuse.Did he wear a condom because if he didn't then he could have caught just about anything and now you can get it to,if he can not control his self when drinking then he should not drink.
2007-07-07 06:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by Talithea H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't believe you have to ask! He is a liar. A person cannot have sex if they are unconscious. He was drunk and that is bad in itself and he cheated! And he thinks that you are a stupid little twit and will believe anything he tells you. Sounds like he is right.
2007-07-07 06:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop him and find another guy. You deserve better. The sooner the better. Think about it...sex unconsciously. Did he take 10 Viagra pills or something? I doubt it. He knew what he was doing. Sorry to say....find a better person. Someone who knows how to drink and respects your relationship.
2007-07-07 06:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by babbles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an excuse or alibi to me*... There is no such thing as unconsciously having sex with another person*... Drunk or not Drunk*... Dump him*.....
2007-07-07 11:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would smack him.
and then, if i really really trust him then i might forgive him.
but if you doubt him then just leave him
2007-07-07 08:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by angeljunti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋