Actually i like it too but it is so ... erm funny?? Why are we like that or becos we are going to become a gay?
2007-07-06 22:42:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No babe, its doens mean you are gay! You are 12 & this is one way of finding out what u like! Its perfectly normal.
However, never do anything u feel uncomfortable with, never touch anyone who is uncomfortable with it & most of all be sure that its with people who arent going to tell others in the school yard!
Young boys can be hurtful & i'd hate to see u being ridiculed at school.
Its just a phase you are going thru'. & if it turns out that you ARE gay... who cares! Do what makes you happy! x
2007-07-06 22:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Carol x 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Being only 12 years old I couldn't imagine doing anything like that (I was a late bloomer) but since this is about you.
Experimenting is part of growing up wether it is straight or gay so long as all parties involved are happy to participate and no one gets hurt (Unless you want to be that is ;) )
This does not mean that you are destined to be gay nor does it mean that you aren't whatever makes you happy and comfortable is ok.
I don't think that you are really old enough to be venturing out with all these adult activities though. Sex is something that should be enjoyed when you are older and able to comprehend what is going on.
2007-07-06 23:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Kisses 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about becoming gay at this point. I do believe that you are too young to be having sex right now, and that you should wait until you become older. Things you do not understand yet will become more clear later on. I'm more worried about people taking advantage of you. Enjoy being a kid for now. You have a whole lifetime to do the other stuff.
2007-07-06 23:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You like it simply because it feels good as it does if you touch yourself. BUT, at 12 years old I would be more concerned why your friends want to touch you? Playful touching at a young age is not unusual, but nipple touching sounds more than just experimentation. It does not make you necessarily gay. Most boys at 12 go through this "show me yours, I'll show you mine" stage. Penis looking and touching is one thing, wanting to touch your nipples is a bit advanced for a 12 year old. Do Not tell your parents, it will freak them out!
2007-07-06 23:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by You can call me Rob 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My main concern is your age...I guess I'm old school, but you seem too young to engage in ANY kind of physical activity. Since you are, I'm really not sure if you are gay. You could just be reacting to the fact that it feels good to you. You may also be bisexual. You don't have enough experience to really know....If you've aways been attracted to males-then most likely-you're gay. If you're attracted to females-then eventually you'll forget about these guys and seek out a girl that suits you. If you enjoy both-you may be bisexual. Though honestly, I'd prefer you wait til you're older for sex, but if you continue as you are-play safe!!!!
2007-07-06 22:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by Illuminessa V 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Oh, dear. I can t imagine telling a twelve-year-old he may be bisexual or gay. Excuse me, but this is ignorance. Right or wrong this is very common among boys of this age. Let s not pin a label on or hang a sign around a twelve-year old. It could be very detrimental to the boy. I thought it important to share this.
2015-02-26 14:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by Dee T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that it makes you gay - I guess its just experimentation...its just really important that if any of you are uncomfortable then its not right - you are all very young and its ok to check each other out - but I would probably just leave it at that for now.
2007-07-06 22:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Trixxie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all boys your age fool around with another boy sometimes. no big thing. if it feels good, go for it. most boys make deals with a friend that they kinda take care of each other, or "do" each other. just keep it a max secret and don't worry about it.
2015-03-02 22:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by crissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a phase boys you age go Thur, we are all like that at that age, its seems that you do enjoy it and they seem to enjoy it but your too young to be doing stuff like that! There is nothing wrong with it although people tell you its wrong! Don't be afraid of what you feel and how you think! Its your body!
2007-07-07 09:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by mickey_112404 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it doesn't mean your going to be gay. Your going to go through puberity, if not already. If this makes you uncomfortable tell them not to touch U it's your body you have control over it. Dont let anyone take control over your body, it's yours. Take care of it. you only have one. Sometimes fun can be dangerous.
Be careful
Good luck
ALabama
2007-07-07 00:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by James R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋