2007-07-06 22:29:40 · 19 answers · asked by Disturbed in the mind 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im married, but developed feelings for another guy...that guy told me he liked me, but i kept my feelings inside...i didnt tellhim that i felt the same way... becasue i dont want to ruin either my relationship, or his. but i love my husband with everything i have, but feel the same way about the other guy. i cant stop thinkin g of him... i know it can never be between me and the "other" guy. but for some reason i cant get over him. some one shoot me now,please....lol
2007-07-06 22:37:25 · update #1
Mentally I believe you can love more than one person at the same time. You most likely love different qualities in each one of them. That is a hard situation as it will ultimately come down to making difficult choices. Someone will be hurt!
2007-07-06 22:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that Love is from The Heart. I'm only speaking for the Emotional Love that you would feel for a Partner. I don't believe The Heart can have feelings for more than one. You have either fallen out of love with your Husband. Or your interests in this other one, is based on curiosity, lust or intrigued at the unknown. Only your Heart will be able to answer that.
2007-07-06 22:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by Nunya Bidniss 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have experienced what you are going through from the other side.
My husband had an affair , he told me he loved her but still loved me too, it broke my heart, and things have never been the same since. The trust is gone and my feelings died.
My advise to you is to stop anything more from happening while you still can, if you love them dont put either of them through an affair. You have to really get to grips with what you feel and who you really want to be with and do what feels right .
Take care. xxx
2007-07-07 02:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by ☆♥ Tinkz Baby! ♥☆ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're no longer a woman, anxiously brooding your one egg a month, and asking your self "Oh who's the only i like?" you're a boy, to blame all the way by your self for a conservatively predicted a hundred million spermatozoa consistent with day--every person of that would desire to do you proud. and you're in basic terms in love with 4 men? permit's say that it somewhat is a start up. Now, as to the threesome--truly, that appears like an particularly fee-efficient thank you to confirm your dilemma, and one, i will guess, which will win unanimous approval. this is in no way tousled, and there is not any longer something--truly no longer something--incorrect with you.
2016-10-01 01:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, that happened to me and for the weiredest reason , the other guy I met on here. I was having a mental affair, and that sucks worse than being in love with 1 person! lol♥j
2007-07-07 01:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so, I was at one time, but sooner or later you will figure out you are falling out with one, & in with the other, it is most likely guilt that has kept you with first one & you need to just move on.
2007-07-06 22:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if youre truly in love with someone, its impossible to even think of being in love with someone else. it is possible to be in a relationship with someone and love them but not be in love with them. then its possible to fall in love with someone else. if thats the case you need to ask yourself where that relationship went wrong and try to fix it. if the relationship is salvageable then forget about the other person. if you dont feel the relationship is worth fixing then get out of it.
2007-07-06 22:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by metaxas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your husband and give him to some other woman and you won't have to worry about both of them. I am sorry but i don't think you love either one of them it sounds like lust.
2007-07-06 23:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only for different reasons.
You can be torn between the two if making a choice.
My opinion only.~~~~~jill
2007-07-07 01:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is. People like that are called "polyamorous." And as long as you're honest with everyone, there's nothing wrong with it.
Talk to the people you love. They may understand.
2007-07-06 22:36:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋