the first time I had sex, It didnt feel the usual painful expected for first time sex, and there was no bleeding at all, I was concerned but my boyfriend is convinced that there are type of women who lose their virginity after their first time of delivery. is it right ? and how possible its? shall I see a doctor to be 100% sure?
2007-07-06 21:34:03 · 12 answers · asked by Tiamo 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you had intercourse by definition you are not a virgin.it is not dependent on the hymen being perforated and bleeding.
The hymen is not a complete membrane usually or otherwise you could not have your period.Rarely the hymen is tough and complete so there is no menstrual loss.The blood accumulates and the hymen has to be cut.This is rare. The hymen being thin can be "perforated/ruptured" very easily by the use of a tampon,cycling, riding etc. it is not necessary to see your doctor for this but it maybe necessary to see him for contraceptive advice.
2007-07-14 06:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it was about 6 years ago now but I can't remember feeling much pain at all. A stabbing pain during, but about 3 and then after I didn't feel any pain. I just remember not thinking about the hymen, so I stupidly thought I was starting my period when I arrived home and saw spotting in my pants. Other than that, no pain. We had been drinking though and I was thinking about other things at the same time as the sex so I wasn't focused on feeling the pain. I didn't want the person to know it was my first time, so I was trying to disguise my pain. We were in a friends' living room and the doors didn't have locks. Many other people lived in the house and we didn't want them walking in on us.
2016-05-20 04:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women don't feel pain/bleed the first time they have sex because their hymens were already broken. Don't worry about it. If you have had sexual intercourse you are not a virgin. Some hymens are so thick that they have to be removed, but that doesn't mean the woman was a virgin (especially if she's pregnant).
2007-07-07 05:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no dont worry at all. when females do bleed after their first time it is because the penis has ruptured the hymen (a thin layered membrane in the vagina. but in many cases the hymen is broken before the loss of virginity, by performing physical exercise dont worry about a thing, and as for the pain, thats a good thing
2007-07-06 21:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by njcharge 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it - you are fine!
There are plenty of women who feel no pain and don't bleed at all the first time they have sex.
It actually speaks well of you and your boyfriend that you had no pain or blood. It means you both took the time to make sure you were ready before doing it.
2007-07-06 21:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by Delicious Pear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have pain the first time I had sex, and I didn't bleed, but the reason was that when I was 12 my hymen broke when I fell off my bike. So it could be that your hymen has already broken.
2007-07-12 11:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex means a mans penis enters a womens vagina and gave her penetration. It's not possible to lose your 'virginity' after delivery unless he put semen on his hands, it was active, and then he put up your vagina. Even then, you'd be a virgin because you haven't had a mans penis inside of you. Sooorry, girl but your not a virgin. Girls sometimes don't feel it hurting the first time they have sex.
Get educated honey, and you want to get involved in sex actually GET EDUCATED!
2007-07-06 21:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, some womens hymens are so tough that sex doesn't break them, and doctors have to surgically remove them before they give birth.
also, some girls are born without hymens, and others are so fragile that they break at a very young age just from running and bike riding and things like that.
2007-07-06 21:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your hymen wasn't already broken? Because there's a good chance it was and that's why you didn't bleed or feel any pain.
2007-07-06 21:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by Bats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its normal. may be in your early ages you have been found of juming or physical exercises... it is possible to loose it that way...
remember some thing or some did it when you was sleeping......?
2007-07-06 21:40:53 · answer #10 · answered by RMS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋