after you loose your virginity?

Question

how are you suppose to feel? I know everyone is different. But i was just wondering about expirences.

Thanks

ok look. i dont appreciate the "YOUR NOT SUPOSED TO HAVE SEX BEOFRE YOUR MARRIED" everyone is diffrent it is there personal choice.

Answer 1

I felt loved. A little disappointed too because I thought it would feel better than it did. (It got better though lol) However, afterwards my boyfriend and I just cuddled and held each other until we fell asleep. We've been together ever since, and we had sex 7 months in to the relationship and have been together for over 2 years. If we broke up tomorrow, I'd be very hurt, but I wouldn't regret that I lost my virginity with him.

I think that as long as you're with someone you love dearly who loves you back, it's ok to have sex. Most marriages don't even last forever, so I don't feel you need to wait for marriage. Yet, that's just my opinion.

Answer 2

Honestly, the real truth is this.

You feel guilty if you later on break up with a guy after sex with him. Say, you'll meet a better guy in the future and you'll want to give everything to him instead.

Guys also want pure girls in real life. The trust is, a real guy will stay with you no matter what because he loves and respects you.

If he leaves you, he was just after a hore to have sex with.

Plain and simple, sex it best before marrige, that way there are no regrets in your life.

No matter how much pressure a man will put on you, say no until you know they will be around for a reeeaaalllly long time afterwards.

But if your just a plain old skank (not saying you are, just taking in general here), then you'll always feel used, unwanted, worthless, cheap, nasty and a hore. No matter how much you try to hide it, every girl feels like that.

Men are basic, plain and simple.

Answer 3

I felt let down. I was fairly young, and he was a bit older, and I guess I just felt like, Oh, that was it? It wasn't much one way or the other. I felt kinda disappointed that now I was supposed to be a "woman" or whatever, and I didn't really feel very different at all.

I guess, looking back, it's just one of the steps in the big ol' journey of life. It's like growing pubes or your first period. It's gonna happen to all of us (ok, most of us) sooner or later, and we all deal wth it differently. Would I go back and change it? No, cause it's all part of who I am now.

Have a good one! :)

Answer 4

like a bright shiny star or a shiny new penny (cause that's what your worth now) so wait till your old enough to handle the consequences

if you dont want peoples advice then you should not ask for it on yahoo answers. because you should know by know that is what your going to get most of the time.

Answer 5

Well my first time was at a party, in a swag (sleeping bag) on the cold ground! so many people walked past, drunk and saw us! i felt so embarrased BUT it happens and i cant take it back now so im not to worried!

Answer 6

hey thats cool if you feel that you are ready to have a kid while you are still under 18. but personally it dose not feel any different afterwords

Answer 7

virginity if a proof of being clear from sin and being loyal to your future husband in this case it is very important in life and the people that they don't have they are unloyal and nitwit.

Answer 8

If the person is your husband you feel great. If the person is a boyfriend who you later break up with, you feel dumb. If you weren't ready AT ALL, then you really feel like crap and may be sad.

Answer 9

Disappointed! It gets better though.

Answer 10

You're supposed to feel guilty because you're not supposed to have sex until you're married and most certainly you'll start to be considered a slut. I'm sorry but that's what the truth really is.