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I don't consider myself a gay men or even bi sexual but I've have had sex with another guys i and afterward i was very disturbed about it but not enough to stop i prayed about it i try to stop but it only gets worser i don't like it and really wanna be straight again and just be right i fell like I'm a evil person and god doesn't here me praying " I don't know " I wish there was a pill i could take its like a decease. Anybody know how? please pray for me.

2007-07-06 19:22:58 · 17 answers · asked by doui 1 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

17 answers

You're not an evil person, just confused. GOD does love you, he loves everyone, and he does hear your prayers. If you are sincere in wanting to change, GOD will help you, he will answer your prayer, but you have to really want to change, and you have to be patient, GOD'S ways and GOD'S timing, are not our ways and our timing. Just continue to pray, and believe that GOD WILL come through for you!
Also, you have to do your part, pray, and ask GOD to give you the strength, and whatever it takes to stay away from situations that cause you to do these things that you know are wrong!
Please have patience, and don't give up on GOD, he WILL NOT give up on you!!

2007-07-06 22:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by Dalmatian lady 6 · 0 2

don't bother your self thinking that gay is a decease. you can't rely on the others' prayers if you are putting your self to midst of trouble engine. you can't really get rid into it, if you are thinking worse than thinking for your goodness. don't say that god didn't answer you prayers because it is not true... how can you feel if you are thinking the worse one? from what you have said, you are in sex with other guys. so the way that you can put it into ignorance is just think about happy life and think that it is bad doing such doings. and don't say that gay is a life style, gay is in burn which a girl imprisoned in the man's body.

2007-07-06 19:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by deynagan 1 · 0 0

God still loves you. are you attracted to women? if you are not then you are gay, and there is nothing wrong with that. don't let society or the church tell you any different. God loves all of his children even if they are gay. I honestly don't believe that being gay is a choice but something that is genetic. I do pray for you and i hope you find the path that is right for you whether it is gay or straight. Ever think of remaining celibate and maybe becoming a priest? just a thought.

2007-07-06 19:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle B 3 · 1 1

thinking the countless words accessible describing "gay existence type", it does not truly complication me. yet although, at the instant, no rely what you would be able to assert, this is going to offend somebody. as long as this is not any longer an offensive be conscious, or word, then this is going to no longer be a situation. And gay existence type isn't precisely an offensive word. What us of a has the main well liked men? Oh my i don't comprehend the place to start. Japan, China, Thailand, South Korea, Vietnam, Philippines, Indonesia, Canada, and u.s..

2016-10-01 01:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0 0

sleeping with another man is a sin,god did not make u that way its all a poison of the mind and only week hearted people fall for it,the devil cannot make his own creations so he tries to tamper with gods work,i am glad u are seeking help i hope others can take example from u (thats if u are serious about changing) there are co-uncling groups u can attend,try a shrink maybe they can help,and try not to put your self in the situations where u will want to have sex with a man.don't worry about these people who are telling u that being gay is fine it certainly is not fine and its definately not beautiful it more disgusting than anything else,the people who disagree with u when it comes to your decision in changing have some serious problems they are feeble minded people and they need to change there nasty ways.sometimes i wish we could go back to the good old days where these people could not do the things they are doing now.

2007-07-06 19:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by Rendevous 4 · 0 1

No such thing as a gay lifestyle.

I am gay but I don't wear denim jeans made of *gay* cotton, do I?
I am a gay man but I don't drive a *gay* car to work, do I?
I am a gay man but I don't pay my *gay* taxes, do I?
I am a gay man but I don't eat *gay* breakfast cereal every morning, do I?

The number of sex partners I take on as lovers is determined by my ASHLEYNESS, not my homosexuality.

Your sexuality was determined by your molecular compound DNA enzyme and you can never change that.

2007-07-06 20:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You need to give up the denile and except yourself as you are.
It can't be so awful if you love it so much you can't stop.
You need to also stop listening to the hate groups about how terrible it is.
If the black people had felt like you they would have all hung themselves for the retarted KKK.
If gave into the hatred of other this would be one nasty world.
You need to except that God Loves you as you are and wouldn't want to see you suffering and confused.
Be yourself.

2007-07-06 21:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by DeathsToy 5 · 0 0

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay, and if you don't consider yourself gay or bi then you are not. It is perfectly normal for straight guys to be attracted to other men.

Also, don't worry about what god "said". Why would god care about gender if you are loving someone? You are not evil, or sick. You are human, and that is not only ok but it is beautiful.

2007-07-06 19:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by Rat 7 · 4 2

sorry you don't practice the gay life. You are either gay or your not you have to decide that for yourself. If another man turns you on then you are definately gay. But if a woman turns you on then your straight. Only you can decide nobody else can decide for you.

2007-07-06 19:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by wanda w 1 · 0 0

Perhaps the reason why you feel so bad is because you are having sex with guys who don't love you nor do you love them. I know that has been the case for me.

Try putting your heart ahead of your libido. If and when you meet someone who is special to you, and treats you well, I'm sure the feelings will be more meaningful instead of horrible.

2007-07-06 19:38:59 · answer #10 · answered by Hadley N 4 · 1 1

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