Well, I am a bisexual, but MY mother, doesn't think that one can be a 'bi'. But for me, I am attracted to people not gender. And she is always on my case.."...if you like women, I wlll be very hurt, and you wont be welcome in my house..and you cant bring any women home!" How horrible is that? The thing that bothers me most is my two Aunts, her sister are lesbians! One just got married to a woman! and my mom is all nice and loving towards them! Yet, she always brings me down and makes me ashamed for who I am. Does anyone have any suggesting on how I deal with this. I mean I have talked to her about it, she just gets angry.
2007-07-06 18:49:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
what did you expect really. look at your motives before you judge hers.
2007-07-06 18:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by nobudE 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes bisexuality is possible... I have a boyfriend (I'm a girl) and I really do get turned on by him, but I also have the hots for my best friend (who is a girl). I think I'm coming to realize that... yes... I am bisexual.
Also about your mom issue... STAY STRONG. Don't let what your mom says bring you down (at least not infront of her) the only way that she will realize that you are bi is if you stand your ground and don't back down. You are bi... be happy. Sadly bisexuality is the minority of the population and minorities do tend to be put down, but don't let this ruin you.
Tell her that you are bi and that if she can't accept it then it is only her loss... not yours.
Seriously... stay strong. It may be hard (especially with your mom) but it will show both you and your mom what you are made of ;-)
ps-- you say that your aunt got MARRIED to another woman... where do you live... cause over here in the U.S. it is prohibited
2007-07-07 02:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by make love not war 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry! That's sad. I may suggest that you listen to her for the momment, but I think you should go and talk to her about it. I think you should tell her your sure you feel this way, and she's your mom and that you love her and she needs to love you and support you for who you are. So, I wish you luck! I know how it feels. If you ever have any problems e-mail me: happyday2410@yahoo.com Please also know when people say there is soming wrong with gay,bi, lez people NO! Nothings wrong! Don't worry. Have a great day!
2007-07-07 02:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Justin j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is possible to be bisexual. I do not know why your mom is so hostile and hypocritical, but I suggest that you chat with her and maybe even go to some PFLAG meetings. Sometimes it takes parents a while to get over the shock of their kids coming out... it took my dad a few months to adjust.
2007-07-07 01:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by Rat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible to be Bisexual.
And you should probably talk to your aunts about your sexuality, they are lesbians so they will understand what your going through.
And maybe don't bring your girlfriends home with you. I would hate to see what happens if your mom was serious.
2007-07-07 01:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Dragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats very bad.God created humans man and woman.You are a woman and must have feelings as a normal woman.Prophet Suleiman asked to satan which sin makes you very happy people are doing and it makes God very sad?
Satan answered without thinking a second:Man with man and woman with woman makes sex i be very happy and God becomes very sad.But i dont mean God is Jesus i mean only one creator God is Allah without partner.That big sin will take you to hell forever.But you have still time to repent and resque yourself from eternal hell.
2007-07-07 02:05:28 · answer #6 · answered by nezih batgun 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
put things in her court and keep it there.....use the "you...i" wording....ex: when you say these things i feel hurt...or....i can see that you get mad when i tell you who i am.....when i bring a woman home, i hope you accept me and show me love, i am your daughter
2007-07-07 01:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jus do it bhind her baq. go to a frend's house nd have fun. hu cares wut she thinks. im sure ur "boyfrend" wud luv da view newaiis.
2007-07-07 02:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well yes it is possible but dont worry it sounds that's genetic but answer my question please if you read it.. thanks
2007-07-07 01:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋