Ok. Im Madly inlove with this Guy from egypt. And He loves me. We have been going out for like a year and a half. Ok so my problem is he lives all the way in egypt, And I live in Michigan. He keeps telling me that he will come soon. But I cant wait, It breaks my heart knowing that I cant see him at this moment. He asked me to marry him and I said yes! He sent me this Beautiful dimond ring, But every time I look at it my heart breaks even more. What should I do? Oh and by the way im 15 and he's 17 and my mom does know about the engagement. She's like inlove with him.Lol. But any ways plz help!
Heres his myspace profile check it out!!!!!
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=201854117&MyToken=a59217ad-6595-403c-81ff-4c81c9e69334
2007-07-06 18:10:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
How much actual time have you spent with him? You are too young to be engaged or married. You have kept this a secret from you mother, why if she is so crazy about him. Find someone closer to home that you can have fun with and see and go to movies with and dance with and be a teenager. This time in your life will never return, live it and love it now while you are young. Don't tie yourself down to a guy thousands of miles away. You are both too young. If you are both still interested after you mature and are old enough you can still get together. Find a local boy to focus on.
2007-07-06 18:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You're 15 and he's 17? You can't even legally get married for another three years! Besides he's from a different country, do you even know about his customs and culture? I'm not saying it's imposible but I am saying that you are too young to even consider getting married. You should be having fun now. You have your whole life to get married take some time to get to know the guy first. There will be a lot of thing sin life that will cause you to change such as turning 16, 18, going to college, turning 21, ect. This will all have an effect on your love life. Don't be so fast to take the first guys hand that asks you out.
2007-07-06 18:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by al l 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you told your mom! If you are really in love, this is going to come out very cliche so brace yourself dear, you can wait a few years. You're love will only grow stronger because you will share even more together that way your eventual marriage will be even stronger. Wait until you get out of high school at least before you get married or even consider marriage. Who you are at 15 is vastly different than who you will be when you are 18 and who you will be at 21 or 30 or 45. Think of marriage as a serious commitment. You want to be with this young man for the rest of your life right now, but you have your whole life to get to know him without the binding contract of marriage.
If you met him through the internet I suggest waiting even longer than the orthodox amount of time here because the internet provides a skewed view of individuals. Before marriage, I advise you to talk to him seriously about your future. If you don't feel comfortable bringing up kids, where you guys will live, and other future choices, you guys aren't yet ready for marriage.
2007-07-06 18:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by hahahehe 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Young love can be powerful. And you may feel that you are ready to take this full on. But you change so much in your twenties that you won't even recognize yourself in ten years. You will be so different.
Young marriages don't last because as people finish growing up, they become different people and end up not liking who the other person has become. This sounds confusing but it's true.
Feeling love in only a fraction of what it takes to be married. Learning to resolve problems, being unselfish, learning to compromise and even sacrifice what you want - it's takes all of these things.
There are a lot of things that you must go over with your life partner before marrying him. Where you plan to live after marriage. How you plan to raise your children? What religion will your children be?
My best advice is to continue this relationship if you want to but wait until after college to go through with the wedding. By this time both of you have had a chance to be independant, pursued by other people and you will feel more like an adult.
Trust me.
2007-07-06 18:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by MelT 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well first you'll have to see if once you meet in person that you still have the same connection because online relationships are so much different. Cause you can say anything.
Plus your both so young. I dont want to seem mean but you should date around before just picking someone to marry so young.
2007-07-06 18:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by LilBoysMom 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You say you have been going out for a year and a half...have you actually MET him? Or is this just an internet thing? Your mom is nuts if she lets you be engaged at 15.
2007-07-06 18:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by dimples 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Go on a plane, then find him. Bring mom. Get married. Wait, you're 15? thought you were 51.
2007-07-06 19:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by ohemgee545 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 06:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you plan on marrying somebody, it's meant to last forever. I know that's not always how it works out, but my point is...if you were planning on being with him for the rest of your life, what's a few more years of being "engaged?"
2007-07-06 18:24:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sweet heart you are so young and have alot of living to do. and have you ever met him? You need to wait and live your life before thinking about getting married and being with some one so far away.
2007-07-06 18:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by amy61283 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋