what are the etiquettes of a slovenian?

Answer 1

-Slovenians are a bit more reserved than neighbouring nations, but after first contact they get quite open and helping.
-Slovenians are proud of the fact that they preserved their national identity (especially the language) in spite of the pressures from neighbouring non-Slavic nations in past centuries.
-They don't like their country to be described as "Eastern Europe".
-There are some open territorial issues with Croatia. Be careful if entering a discussion on this subject. Nationalists take it quite emotionally! Another delicate issue is Slovenian civil war during WWII. This national tragedy is still painful for many Slovenians. Try to stay neutral if discussing it.
-If you are invited to dinner to someone's home bring a bottle of good wine. You will often be asked if you want to change to slippers when you arrive. You should accept it. It's expected to compliment the cook. Do it before you are asked if you liked the meal.
-It's normal that you shake your hand when introduced to someone. Don't try to make a kiss when introduced. It might be considered intrusive.
-Always use formal forms when addressing elderly people. Otherwise some might not want to talk to you.
-In most Slovenian households it is customary to take off one's shoes. This is a habit prevailing in most of Central Europe, maybe because of general cleanliness, but also because grit and slush from the pavements can cause havoc to a flat in winter.
-It is polite to let your wrists or hands rest on the table, but not your elbows.

Answer 2

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