Just had twins and NEED HELP!!!?

Question

My wife asked me to go on her account to ask for help. We have day old twin boys Jace and Cade we cant think of middle names... any suggestions??? And we have 3 other children that are spread apart (13, 8 and 6), we were thinking about sending them off to there grandparents for a bit so we can get used to havening to the babies but should we have all 5 kids at once so the other 3 can get used to Jace and Cade and we can get used to having all 5? were not shure. PLEASE HELP!!

My wife asked me to go on her account to ask for help. She has been using the laptop but she was feeling it today. We have day old twin boys Jace and Cade we cant think of middle names... any suggestions??? And we have 3 other children that are spread apart (13, 8 and 6), we were thinking about sending them off to there grandparents for a bit so we can get used to havening to the babies but should we have all 5 kids at once so the other 3 can get used to Jace and Cade and we can get used to having all 5? were not shure. PLEASE HELP!!

My wife has been using the laptop (asking and answering) for peppering for when we get home and the summer, but today she was really feeling it (pain and is tired) so i went on for her and please no rude comments)

My wife has been using the laptop (asking and answering) for peppering for when we get home and the summer, but today she was really feeling it (pain and is tired) so i went on for her and please no rude comments)

Answer 1

Its going to be a tough ajustment for all but I would suggest keeping all the children together. I would think that by sending the other children to the grandparents they may feel that they are no longer important enough to be around or they may feel that they are being replaced. Even though you can explain it to them but they also need to get used to having two extra babies around the house too. Children adapt easily and they need to know that there are going to be times that there are going to be times that they are going to have to help out with all of the other kids in the family. One factor that they need to realize is that a family sticks together and helps out where ever they are needed and that means if you need a diaper or a bottle they may have to help you get it for you but as a parent you need to balance it so that you are not asking them to help all the time because they are still children. I am the oldest of 10 children and we all paid our dues and each of us have taken turns doing dishes cleaning bathrooms or baby duty while mom got a break here and there. It wasnt always easy but once we got a system down and everyone adjusted things went pretty well. Dont worry about not getting to spend enough time with your new babies, there will be lots of time during the school year and night time feedings that you will spend with them, for right now I would use the time you have to bond together as a family and strenghten your extended family. I would also give a little extra attention to your 6 year old, he/she is probably feeling a bit sad at no longer being that baby anymore. Losing that postion could make them act out or make them just not want to interact with the babies at all. I hope all works out for you and congrats on the twins..... good luck with bringing your new family together... as far as middle names I would go with Jace Michael and Cade Daniel or Jace Layne and Cade Walker but I also like Jace Blayne and Cade David

Answer 2

I def. think that if you have someone to send the kids to (your older ones) then you should use that resource!!! your children will have PLENTY of time to get used to their new siblings and vice versa-- but you two (you and your wife) could get some YOU FOUR time in together-- it may be the last!!! Your wife needs peace in the house, and I am sure that you wouldn't mind either b/c i know dads get tired too... but when they get back, make sure you spend at least an hour w/ each child doing something one on one, and "get away"... i know its hard, but they'll appreciate it... b/c thinking that your children are pretty spaced apart-- especially w/ the 13 year old and that is a difficult age any way... PLUS you had twins... so that's double the duty taking you guys away... so make sure your kids get attention within a week or two when they come back... make the houshold not one where mom and dad rule, but that everyone does their part and its a team effort... ALSO-- i know a lot of people are saying to keep them home, but don't let that make you feel bad if you decide to send them to the grandparents. kids like grandparents and they may even prefer it!!!! Ask them what they want, but you decide the final... but DONT FEEL GUILTY whatever you do.

as for baby names.... i like jace and cade. what about jace connor, jace evans, or jace mathew. Cade Lee or Cade Hampton?? I don't know... just thinking...

sorry, that's all i can think of right now. good luck to you both. congrats!!! Ur an awesome husband!

Answer 3

First of all, Congratulations. For middle names maybe you might like something like Jace Elijah or Micheal and Cade Thomas or Samuel or Anthony or Matthew. I don't really know but something traditional should go nicely. As for having the other kids around, a new baby at home is something that the whole family is going to have to get used to so it makes sense to me to have all of the children there so that you guys can kind of ease into what family life is going to be like for now. Besides having a new younger sibling can be a lot of fun for the other children. It really can be a learning experience for every one. However, if you guys are really stressed right now some alone time with just the twins might be helpful. So, Good luck to you and congratulations once again.

Answer 4

Jace Mitchell
Jace Garrett

Cade Alan
Cade Matthew

Answer 5

CONGRATULATIONS!

Ok, now that I'm done yelling, my advice.

I think it'd be fine to have some quite time with just you and the babies. You can certainly explain to the older children that the babies are going to need some extra-quiet time in the house for 1 or 2 days so they can get used to it. The kids will understand if you can think of a good reason to give them.
Besides, it'd only be a few days, and you guys need the quiet time too. I'm glad the grandparents are close by to help!

As far as names go, that's a little difficult, with their first names being one syllable. Try tothink of 3 syllable middle names.... I'm partial to Jace Alexander and Cade Theodore.

Congrats, congrats and good luck. Heck, if I lived near you I'd cook a few meals for you and bring 'em over. My mother did that for me and that helped more than anything, not having to worry about cooking.

Answer 6

Jace Jacob, Jace Anthony, Cade Joshua, Cade Justin I think you should have all five kids there and they all can be apart of the new brothers! You will have to get use to it anyway and they can be a big help! I have twins and try to get them on a schedule together! I always fed and change their daipers at the same time! Enjoy it now! LOL Good luck!

Answer 7

I think you should have all 5 children at home so they can get use to the new baby boys. Send them to their grandparents on occasion. They will be a big help to you.
Good middle names for Jace and Cade are:
Ryan, Daniel, Cole, Paul, Alan, Jason, Hudson Anthony

Answer 8

Jace Ryan and Cage Andrew
Jace Thomas and Cage Travis
Jace Bryce and Cade Quinn
Jace Brendon and Cade Sariel (both means prince)

Answer 9

I say if you feel like your wife is going to need sometime with the new babies then no harm done send the little tykes off to the grandparents but make sure the kids get to see there new brothers for a while before you send them off. My other suggestion is if you don't feel right send the kids off to nana and papa maybe you can watch after them and your wife cqan have some alone time with the babies. I don't know what you can use for middle names how about Owen for one of them thats my sons first name I like the name :) and congratulations to you and your wife. good luck to you both!!!!

Answer 10

Jace Ryan
Cade Ian