I've never in my 10 years of being sexually active had an orgasm during sex. (I've had them during other activities) Is that fairly common?
2007-07-06 15:33:58 · 27 answers · asked by two_kee_kees 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Most women can orgasm only through clitoral stimulation. The clitoris is located outside of the vagina, so it would make sense that most would women could not orgasm during intercourse, but would rather orgasm during other parts of sex, such as during oral or manual sex.
What you're experiencing is perfectly normal.
2007-07-06 15:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I used to fake orgasms routinely until I met someone who I was compatible with and satisfied me sexually. We had sex routinely for 4 yrs and then broke up after he went off into a jealous rage and busted the windows out of my car.
I now an back to faking it again with a new lover, It gets him off my back and he really is clueless in bed. He has no idea how to satisfy a woman and in spite of all my instruction, he fails to understand how it all works. He thinks his penis is magical and does it all. Many men think that and many women lie about it and let them go on believing it.
2007-07-06 15:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by happydawg 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's very common...there are different positions you can try that will help you along that path though! Also...if your partner isn't very well endowed, you will most likely not have one during sex. (I know, I know, we're not supposed to say that size matters, but it does! My husband is huge & I never had an orgasm during sex until I had sex with him!)
2007-07-06 17:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by Dodger's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are a lot of women who even never had orgasm. It is certain spots that they need to experience and get good at it too inorder to get orgasm. Just ask Sue Johanson or Dr. Ruth.
2007-07-06 15:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I didn't either when I was married. After I got a boyfriend he took me to a sex shop where we bought a vibrator and other sex toys. he made me aware of my own sexuality and I will never forget him for that. I can climax every time I have sex now if I concentrate on myself and that is the way it should be.
2007-07-06 15:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Guess men are just lucky. We get to have an orgasm every single time.
Some women who either don't trust men in general or are just simply cold at heart, can't have orgasms very often. Or maybe you just simply don't really need closeness to that degree.
2007-07-06 15:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by aliesterc 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm like you, I've never had an orgasm during sex. I don't think its uncommon...
2007-07-06 15:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Megan 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is
our G spot is hard to find and arouse during intercourse therefore it is hard for us women to have an orgasem but Ive only had an orgasem with one guy everytime we had sex, other than him Ive never had an orgasem with any other man so it is very hard
2007-07-06 15:37:46 · answer #8 · answered by Blondie* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how it is for me too... I don't orgasm while having sex, but other forms of intercourse i do... I thought i was the only one!
2007-07-06 15:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I hope not. I know I have to make love for like 30 minutes until she orgasms. Otherwise she is just "cumming". The only guaranteed orgasm is cunnilingus.
2007-07-06 15:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋