Period question, i really need help on?

Question

O.k this is out of curiosity, i need serious answers please. I heard that after you period you can have sex unprotected and the guy can *** in you for 3 days and nothing will happen, then my friend told me no, after the period it's open and its easier to get pregnant, so you will have to wait about 8 days to *** inside.
So my ? is it 3 days after and nothing will happen?
Will it happen either way?
Or can it also be 8 or more days after?
....to get pregnant, that is.

Answer 1

i want to say that at three days yo wont get pregnant. it is 12-14 days after that you are most fertile. it could stretc out from 10-16 days as well. we are all different. but i believe right after your period you will not get pregnant. that was the problem my husband and i were making all along. we finally did it in the very middle of my cycle and it worked!

Answer 2

You are a lot less likely to get pregnant right after you menstruate, especially if your cycles are regular. 3 days after your period is MOST LIKELY an infertile day, but that isn't a guarantee. By 8 days after, however, it's a bit iffier--sperm can stay alive inside you for several days (even if you wash, they can still be stuck in your crevices), so they might still be hanging around when you release your next egg. But the "rhythm method," which is what you're talking about, is the least reliable method of birth control, so if falling pregnant would be a disaster, you should not rely on it.

If you want to have vaginal sex without a condom, you can look into your other birth control options. (The condom is the only method that reliably protects you against sexually transmitted diseases.) The diaphragm and (especially) the pill don't interfere with the sensation at all (Although of course you have to go to the gyno to get them). If money/parental approval is a problem, see if there is a Planned Parenthood office in your town. They provide many services besides just abortions, and will see you without a parent along. The people who work there are very sympathetic and won't judge you for wanting to have sex.

If you're determined to have sex without any kind of barrier protection, and can't go to the gyno for prescription birth control, you can also buy spermicidal gel at the drugstore. Most people use it along with the sponge and/or a condom, but using it alone will provide some protection against pregnancy. Combining the gel with choosing to have sex on the days you are least likely to be fertile will give you decent odds of avoiding pregnancy--but only the barrier (condom) or hormonal (pill) methods are really reliable.

Answer 3

Okay for one sweetie, im 16 years old and a teen mom, My boyfriend never blew his load inside of me, you can get pregnant off of Pre Ejaculation.. which is if he isnt using a condom you can get pregnant off of the little bit of *** that goes inside of you when he is having sex with you even before he pulls out or anything.. DONT HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX.. i got pregnant off of pre-***, and yeah now im a lonley 16 year old mother to a 5 month old baby.. dont have unprotected sex anyways but its easier to get pregnant either way between 12-14 days into the whole cycle.. be careful..& if you get pregnant then its your own doing, i told you how things are and if you think birth control can stop all this then your wrong i have 7 friends who were on birthcontrol when they got pregnant because they thought the same way you & all the immature little girls do.. & dont think that it could never happen to you because when you least expect it you can be pregnant..

Answer 4

either way its not good to have unprotected sex. Check with a gynocologist to check this myth. You are most fertile a week before your period starts. if you have a regular period then you can map this out accordingly. If you think that you would want a guy to *** inside during unprotected sex then get on the pill and stay on it....or find a contraceptive method where you wont worry about being or getting pregnant if you really want this action to take place.

Answer 5

There are NO safe days in your menstrual cyle just days where you 'least' and 'most' likely to concieve. You are least likely to concieve just after your period (but I did a couple of days after and now im pregnant) and most likly to concieve 13-15 days after your period. Bear in mind that sperm can live inside you for up to 3 days also. The best method if you dont want to take the chance is to wear a condom (also protecting you from STD too)

Answer 6

For all those who have it all diagnosed tell my son that. My husband and I used protection every time before did it one time with out last day of period and used protection every time after till i was certain i was pregnant. All it took was one time to get a beautiful boy. Which I wanted and convinced my husband who couldnt make up his mind to do. Also the pull out method doesnt work either. Semen is still released before actual ejaculation. You can get pregnant anytime of the month.

Answer 7

Okay first of all....You can get pregnant any time. 3 days after 8 days after...but you are most fertile 11 - 14 days after. But you can get pregnant any time.

Answer 8

It doesn't really matter.
Don't have unprotected sex. It's just stupid and irresponsible. It might tick your guy off to have to wrap himself. But then again, I'm sure he would rather do that then have a child.
And you might be embaressed to ask him to use a condom. But isn't it better then the embaressment of a disease? And isn't embaressment just a little better than having a baby come out of your hole?
Think about it.

Answer 9

You can get pregnant ANY time if you have started menstruating. There are times during the cycle when it is more likely, but there is NEVER a time when you absolutely cannot get pregnant. ALWAYS use protection.

Answer 10

Abstinence is the only way to not end up preggers... Regardless if you have sex before, during, or after your menstrual cycle...