what does it mean if he suddenly feels like hitting you and does it?
2007-07-06 15:04:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
slap you in the face really hard
2007-07-06 15:07:37 · update #1
Sadistic pig.
2007-07-06 15:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by Belen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is another form of Sado-masochism in which inflicting pain to ones sex partner is more of a turn on for them. In many cases it is also appreciated by the party being hit, choked (to within moments of passing out), slapped, cut, etc. This could get dangerous fast for you. If you do not approve of such behavior, then tell this guy immediately. Not when your in bed, but now. If he thinks otherwise or refuses to stop, get away from him as with time it will turn more and more aggressive.
2007-07-06 22:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a relationship many years ago that involved that sort of thing. She wanted to be hit and abused. I had a hard time getting into that and she moved on.
I was young and didn't quite understand why she was like that. I do now.
2007-07-07 04:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Bill I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sometimes slap my wife's bare bottom, but never really hard. (More like a pat.) If you are getting whacked hard enough you are asking questions about it, it must be more than just a "love pat." This guy just might have some serious mental health issues. If you've asked him to never do that again but he does anyway, you need to..........RUN!!!!!! It ain't going to get better as time goes on. Trust me on this one.
Kent in SD
2007-07-06 22:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by duckgrabber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need more specifics. What type of hitting? Like a "spanking" thing, or try to hit to hurt you like punching or something?
Bottom line...hitting is NEVER OK...even if it was like a love pat on the @ss, he should of asked first to make sure you were cool with it.
2007-07-06 22:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are more sexually excited when they hit or strangle their partner and vice versa. Some people are into pain. Either way things like this should always be mutual. Tell him if it makes you uncomfortable.
2007-07-06 22:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by spiffymo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh. dangerous stuff. lots of people are into spanking and bondage but a hard slap in the face is taking it to far. get out.
2007-07-06 22:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is supposed to be an act of making love.
Hitting is an act of aggression, anger, perhaps.
Never should the two go together, unless by some kinky fetish, agreed to by BOTH partners
2007-07-06 22:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by shawnzmojo102 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some where, some one told a guy that he was with this girl "women" and that SHE told him to hit her and that IT turned her on . that is where it started . now guys are trying to find that girl . if you don't like it --- then you have to tell him . if you do --- then make sure your in control . make sure he knows that when you say to STOP , that he MUST STOP!!! don't let him hit you with a chair . lol !!!
2007-07-06 22:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by blue knight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say anger issues. I would be very concerned if I were you. Find help from a doctor or counselor or whomever. Hitting you is never okay. Ever.
2007-07-06 22:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
what kind of hitting? Like, spanking or punching in the face?
2007-07-06 22:07:12 · answer #11 · answered by Sam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋