they said that he might have a chance of dying. and he kept telling me he wanted a child I asked him if he just wanted one because hes afraid he might die and he told me no. What should I do I want to have a kid with him because I know that if I dont and he dies then all I am going to have are memories and He told me that having a child is the only thing that he wants to accomplish what should I do?
2007-07-06 14:45:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first thing that comes to mind is YES...... But what about you? Think of the response ability you would have after he's gone. And what about your future? You would be a single mother and if you meet someone else that you also love very much. The consequences of you having a child......... But your decision and you must be very sure before you commit yourself in this very difficult situation.
2007-07-06 14:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by johann_777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about your situation after he dies. Can you support the child after he is gone? And there is the great possibility that after a year, you will fall in love again and bring somebody else's kid into your marriage. Are you sure your new man will treat your kid right?
There will be so many questions that will remain unanswered if you agree to have a child with your dying boy friend. I suggest that you stay by his side and continue loving him until his last day, but try not to drag an innocent baby into this relationship.
2007-07-06 14:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by Belen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats fine if you can deal with being a single mother. Get married first and make sure his life insurance is made out to you so you will have living expenses.
Having a child is a nice sentiment but there are lots of potential problems and they will all be yours, he wont be there.
2007-07-06 16:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how old you are, and your financial situation. i would suggest you get a specimen sample from him, and when the time is right for you, that you get artificially inseminated. he could make a video diary for the child, and a will for you and the child also. i hope this helps, good luck.
2007-07-06 14:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? and will you be able to support your child once and if hes gone? and if he lives, will you be able to have a healthy relationship with a child included? ask yourself these things first before going ahead..
2007-07-06 14:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What type of heart problems?
What type of rib problems? I've never heard of someone with rib problems unless it was broken ribs.
2007-07-06 15:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you hear this YOURSELF from the doctor?
Go to the doctor with him.
Be very, very careful.
2007-07-06 14:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by rjrmpk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd want to talk to the doc myself and find out what's going on. i think i'd be more worried about his health at this point.
2007-07-06 14:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋