2007-07-06 13:26:35 · 33 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My friend wants me to go with her.
2007-07-06 13:45:02 · update #1
Smart Guy.....trying to get points : )
2007-07-07 03:31:30 · update #2
Here's the thing. Technically, there is no law against it, but you have to be certain you're up for the consequences. Firstly there are the guys who will hit on you regardless of the ring on your finger. Then, if you can handle a bunch of strange men trying to rub up on you, then sure go right ahead. Thirdly try to take into account that people who know you will also be there and regardless of whether you're with a girlfriend or not, it's likely to send the wrong message. The Club is a prime place for people to start dissention between couples.
My advice, talk to your girlfriend--the one that invited you, and your husband. If he says it's ok, then sure go right ahead. He probably trusts you enough to let you go anyway, but seeking his consent says a lot about your loyalties.
2007-07-06 15:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by Thagenesis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heck yeah!! As long as you are doing it to get out and spend some time with the girls, and have no intention of cheating, it's fine. Guys don't realize that chicks just like to get out and dance, and it's good to have a little time apart. You can't be together all the time, you need time to be you, not just a wife. Be sure that you don't give him any reason to be jealous though, it's not fair to use your girls as an excuse to go out and scope out other men, looking is ok, but touching should be limited to your husband.
2007-07-06 14:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by Suzette 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with going out to a night club. However, if your husband doesn't want you to go, then you need to consider his feelings. Also, be sure to dress like a married woman, not like a "hoochy mama" trying to get a guy. Not dead, but not tryin' to pick up guys. Basically, act better than you would if your man was with you.
I would be worried if a woman wants to go out every weekend without her husband though -- once or twice a year is time with your friends. Once or twice a month is trying to make hubby mad.
2007-07-06 13:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by mj69catz 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i say yes. as long as this is a mature married woman who knows the differences between the mambo you do on the dance floor and the mambo you do horizontally. :) You do not need to be out with your husband in a club as long as you know how to act and come home at a decent time. Just because we are married doesn't mean that our social lives are dead. We do deserve nights out with our girlfriends! have fun and be safe!
2007-07-06 13:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by who are you anyway?? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it's fine. Just remember you came to the party alone and you will leave the party alone. It's healthy to go out every once in a while with your girlfriends. Let your husband know what you are doing. If he trusts you, then there's not a problem. Don't go sneaking around, that causes problems.
2007-07-06 14:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Brooke J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem with night clubs (in general) is most men there are pigs and will go after any thing that walks and smells half decent. Why the need to go to night club ? There are so many other more interesting things to do in life ( ie dinner,movies,concert..etc.)
2007-07-06 13:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by ensoman 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as you and your spouse are comfortable with the idea. Then go have some fun. And as long as your intentions are pure, and you and your husband trust eachother, I don't see anything wrong with having a ladies night out. I am on my way out too, as a matter of fact. And my hubby even made sure that i had some money on me.
2007-07-06 13:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by Rijam 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes it is okay. i used to go out dancing with my girlfriends all the time. i also told guys "no, thank you". now, i'm a bit old for clubbing. but i loved going out with my husband. he's just not much of a club person. grey hairs seem to be setting in.
2007-07-06 14:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,My answer is a big NO...
Its not generally advisable for a married women to go to a Night club....
But in case ur husband accompanies you then its OK...........
2007-07-06 17:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK. Been married 12 yrs and wish mine would go out more. Just as long as you behave. If you going out looking to do something wrong, well then stay home.
2007-07-06 14:19:14 · answer #10 · answered by Dave S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋