I'm really silly, a bit of a cynic, and talk to nearly everyone ,however, I'm not attracted to people who are very outgoing. Would that just make me a spot light hog? I like people who can even out my temperment and calm me down and get me thinking more logically. I'm a spatial thinker and I like people who can respect that ,but provide a solid flat base of knowledge. So if you were shy would you find that intimidating? I've been told that I'm intimidating, overpowering, and exhausting ,but that's just the way I am I guess. I find that I often don't have time for individual attention with people because I'm always handling a thousand projects at once...any cure, antedote, remedy, or whatever you'd call it to my problem?
2007-07-06 13:09:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Girls who are loud and " too " out-going sort of get to me, but a girl who is a bit silly, like you said, would be rather refreshing, and kinda fun, because I get that way myself. I get laughing about some silly thing , and some think I'm nuts, but I find things funny sometimes, so I laugh.
I like to have some times of relative calm, but I'm certainly not one to mind a girl gettinginvolved in things that make her happy, except another man ( lol ) . I am not shy, but I seem rather awkward around a girl I'm starting to have a thing for, now isn't that dumb ? I don't think you would intimidate me, or over power me, or exhaust you, because I don't sweat the small stuff , after what I've been through with an unfaithful woman( I caught her in our own bed with him one night-I worked shift work, and I took sick in the night and came home ). After all that commotion, nothing seems to bother me too much, in comparison. So, you would be refreshing & likeable, as long as you are a one man woman. I couldn't stand to be hurt again. Sorry for going on so. It's not like we are apt to get together, but it's nice to talk openly about things. Take care oxox
2007-07-07 10:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by The Count 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah. This sounds familiar. Yeah I've been told I'm like an emotional sanctuary. All by women who are talkative and lead hectic lives. Opposites attract and sometimes everything works out great. But sometimes they begin to bore each other. There is always a fine line and it's usually not very easy to define your feelings for the other person (your opposite).
2007-07-06 13:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im exactly like you most of the time and the thing is its normal. I dont like outgoing people that much because they will aventually steal your spotlight but i just find them plain annoying. lol thats the truth. opposites attract is sometimes true. so a shy person would find you a very good company.
2007-07-06 13:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not much of a problem. Just go out and do it! It seems that if others are intimidated by you, and you are intimidated by others, then the feeling is mutual and you'll be fine!
2007-07-06 13:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by Master Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should act how u want to act and soon and i mean very soon someone will find that cool u know
2007-07-06 13:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋