Hi All :) .. Do you find that you attract a certain "type" of person? :D?

Question

If so, which "type" do you attract? .. And why do you think that is?
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I am looking for all sorts of answers, not just from the people who have picked up on a pattern in the people they attract.... I am just curious...............
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Thanks, for answering in advance! :-)

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Explain your answer............. Thanks..
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CrimeLab, thanks for your honesty :)
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Answer 1

I attract men (ew) in general. I'm gay, if you couldn't tell by all the rainbow shyt in my avatar. The last person I want to attract is a straight guy but unfort. it happens more often than not.

Most of the time they don't know I'm gay and then when I tell them I am and that's why I can't "date" them, then they become all excited like they just won the million dollar question. Did I miss something? I won't date you and now your happy? I'm lost, they think that it's a good time for them to ask, "so can I watch you and your girlfriend? I just want to watch!" Does this look like a puppet show? Um no!

I'd like to attract more "normal" lesbians, like me. You'd never know unless I told you, or you saw the rainbow shyt on my car.

:)

Answer 2

I attract the "fatal attraction" type of guys. I have had more stalker-types than anyone else I know. I used to really puzzle over this and worry about it; I figured it was something I was doing. Anytime I tried to talk to any females about it, they'd get an attitude, like I was bragging or something. It's nothing to brag about. When I was 14, one tried to kill me and held me there for 3 days. Then as I got older, I realized: I have a very strong personality. I'm assertive, tough (for a girl), aggressive and I show other people how to be that way too. So logically guys with less-than-adequate self-esteem would be attracted to that type of female (though they never seemed to be lacking at the time but I can see it looking back; hindsight is 20/20). So then when I try to break the relationship off they feel like they have no strength or anything without me, even though it's in them and it's been in them the whole time. I just found it and brought it out. And that's why they can't let go. Another part to it is that they are big pretenders. Many guys with less self-esteem are. I see through that and love them anyway. They don't want to give that up in a world where so many people are fake. Including them.

Answer 3

Definitely. I think that names of first cousins of the child are especially off limits, even middle names. Names of close friends children also. However names of the child's aunts, uncles, distant older cousins, grandparents could all be sources of names to honor that person. If I had always planned on a name for my child and a close friend used it recently I may still decide to use it afterward. I also believe there are limits on special instances when you want to name a child after someone who has passed away. I'll use a specific instance to explain. A close family friend of ours has just passed away recently and we are pregnant with a boy. My husband suggested that we name our son after him, however the man that passed has two daughters in their early 20s who don't have children yet. I told my husband that it was inappropriate for us to use the name because they should be given that opportunity for their children and I don't want them to feel like we are taking it away from them. I would consider using it as a middle name if they didn't mind so they could still use it as a first if they choose to do so.

Answer 4

Yes Mostly due to karma. We attract certain types of people due to our past life and o certain people and they o us. We are generally pattern oriented so they all seam similar in many ways. Also our own mental and spiritual status attracts certain types. Like a magnet attracts certain objects due to its makeup. We are like magnets attracting our karmic reactions from other people. And to Give them theirs. The law of attraction has to do with karma, not so much desire. But many times our karma can line up with our desire but not always. For info on all this read Bhagavad Gita as it is By Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada on line asitis.com Tells about karma, reincarnation and how we are attracting situations.I tend to attract people who are really searching for Truth, because I want to give that truth.

Answer 5

I attract eccentrics and I am attracted to them. I could have a collection of them if I kept them in a museum. My wife, however, sees ME as the eccentric, and a bizarre one at that. she is pretty normal ad acts as ballast, keeping me on a mostly even keel.

Answer 6

I only attracted married, middle aged men or creepy guys..but at the time I guess I kind of wanted that...:Snot anymore though.
you ONLY attract what you emit by the way.

Answer 7

I'm a "helper", so tend to attract really emotionally needy people, which sure wears thin after a while!

Answer 8

married and or older women, im 19 and sense i was 15 ive only dated or have had sex with people the age of 20-32 have no idea why but older women love me..

Answer 9

I find I intimidate everyone I attract and they don't want to ask me out at first for that reason.

Answer 10

I attract people who want wealth, acceptance, confidence