So i am attending my cousins wedding next weekend and i am trying to pick out an outfit. I've been to a few weddings before but i wasn't out then, so i did the whole dress thing. I don't want to go in a dress but wearing a full suit doesn't seem quite right either. so what is appropriate formal wear for a soft butch?
2007-07-06 12:25:22 · 10 answers · asked by Droplet82 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Dress shirt, slacks (man tailored), jacket/blazer (man tailored)... and a tie if youre comfortable.. if youre not.. sling your jacket over your shoulder and wear the collar open for a little more casual dressy look.
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Damn! Am I the only one here that thinks butch/soft butch MEANS butch/soft butch? Im sorry.. maybe Im old school femme, but when I hear "butch" I have a mental image and its NOT in a dress of ANY kind OR in ANY feminine garment. BUTCH does not mean FLANNEL... I love a good metrosexual butch woman.. oh holy cow yeeeesss... but.. do whatever you are comfortable in.
2007-07-06 12:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Butch Femme Wedding
2016-12-10 13:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd probably wear a shirt and a tie. maybe a silk shirt or something made of fancier fabric than the usual cotton blends? that's what the guys i know do when they go to weddings if they don't wear a suit.
depending on the wedding, you might be able to get away with a nice sweater and slacks. if you think all of the guests will be in super formal wear, you might want to just suck it up and wear a suit.
2007-07-06 12:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by queerbutch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Katherine Hepburn style pant suit, elegant but not overly girly.
2007-07-06 12:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
maybe one of those suit/dresses. my mom isnt a lesbian but she tomboyish. and she wore like a suit, but it was a skirt to . she wore it to my brothers wedding. it looked very nice and it wasnt to girly or boyish
2007-07-06 12:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jaymee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a tank top dress/shirt with a pair of nice slacks!
2007-07-06 13:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Namaste 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think any of these outfits would do ( or one like these ) ... something nice - but comfy ... good luck and have fun ... !
2007-07-06 12:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Informative replies, just what I was looking for.
2016-08-24 07:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you usually wear?
wear a "nicer" version of that and let the waggin tongues wag
2007-07-06 12:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by joe the man 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A ruffly black ballerina dress with some high spike heels, some leather armbands, and a motorcycle vest.
2007-07-06 12:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by topink 6 · 0⤊ 5⤋