I'm afraid of people, why????????????? My life is very messed up, and I'm an adult.
2007-07-06 12:23:28 · 14 answers · asked by itguru5354 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I sometimes feel like crying in my heart. Why am I like this? If I continue to be like this, I will not succeed.
2007-07-06 12:30:26 · update #1
i suggest you see a counsler or doctor....
2007-07-06 12:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by ஐ♥Catalina♥ஐ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being afraid of people is a good idea. People can be very cruel. Your life can be messed up at any age, you have already took the first step admitting you have a problem.
Also don't worry you are not the only adult messed up!
2007-07-06 21:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Jacqueline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you are afraid of people I'm figuring you're still around them a bit. Is it a fear of talking to them? Being near them? Try this it helped me get over my shyness (not the same but still...) strike up conversations with clerks in stores. Not much as they are busy but little things like the weather, diffy products on sale, things like that. While it will be difficult at first, you'll find your wings growing and soon, you'll be able to fly.
2007-07-06 19:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by dk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that!! Here is a book you might want to take a look at or anything you can find that is related to the topic of the book you will find on this website. Good Luck Be Safe. :)
2007-07-06 19:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by Michael N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you understand that people aren't thinking about you, they are only thinking, Me, Me ,Me, myself included. If you say someone's name ,watch how the perk up ,or compliment them,they are smiling and happy. Try it, you won't be afraid when you get their reactions! Salesmen know this is the key to be a great salesman. Hope this helps you!
2007-07-09 21:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by jbailey200358 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude calm down and just take a breath ok make some friends joina club like golf or somethin where do u work make friends talk to people and just change ur life start meditating.
2007-07-06 20:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always blame your parents! Seriously, you need to talk to a professional. There are too many great things that you are missing out on. Get help and get out there and enjoy life!
2007-07-06 19:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by jellybean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just pray about it!!!!! take your time and try to get to know people. Whatever you went through to get you this way forget about it and move on with your life.. You have to live life to the fullest.. We are not promised tomorrow...
2007-07-06 19:34:49 · answer #8 · answered by Alisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sometimes I am afraid of people....they can be so mean, rude, selfish, dishonest. BUT they are also, sweet, funny, kind, helpful, smart, ........have you tried talking to a professional?
2007-07-06 19:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by Indy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe because ur exposed to wordly things. like, watching murderers or things like that on the news or reading it in the papers so ur afraid of people thinking that everyone does it?? idk. id get some serious help if i were u. u might as well be afraid of urself.
2007-07-06 19:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by cassaaaay !(: 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Best to hash this out in therapy
2007-07-06 19:39:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋