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and if NOT, would you think there would be underlaying resons for a woman to have these fantasies?

2007-07-06 12:12:10 · 23 answers · asked by memyselfandi 1 in Social Science Psychology

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Normal, is a very relative term. Is it "normal" for people to paint their faces sky blue or is it "normal" to pay for the goods we find in the shops.
people may find such fantasies distasteful or disturbing,
But then, S & M is not for everyone.
People play out such fantasies, with like minded people.
as long as they remain fantasies played out in safety, with concenting adults, you can do as you like.
But certain people will always be shocked

2007-07-06 12:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by steven m 7 · 0 2

It is not normal, but it is not unheard of. There have been rape cases where a man rapes young girls and his wife watches. I'm sure there is a psychological reason behind this... or maybe its just a natural human fetish? I suggest you seek therapy to get the answers for yourself. Your psychologist will not judge you like the people on yahoo answers (who don't understand that you want help and that it isn't your fault that your brain is wired this way). You aren't tempted to act on these fantasies though, are you? Wheather you are or not, seeing a psychologist for whatever fantasy you are self conscious about is important.

2007-07-06 19:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Fantasies -- no matter how taboo -- are normal. When such fantasies involve scenarios like rape, they only become dangerous if the person wants to act on his or her fantasy.

Often, allowing a fantasy to play out in one's mind will cause it to run its course, letting new ideas take its place. If one were to keep trying to avoid the fantasy, the thoughts would become overwhelming. Try not to think of a polar bear, and your mind will keep coming back to the polar bear. Same goes for thoughts of rape, molestation or anything else.

2007-07-06 19:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by dreamzgirl 2 · 1 0

Sounds more to me like you are fantasizing about a woman or girl having this fantasy.

No one wants to be raped.

Saying a violent crime is a fantasy for someone is disgusting and perverted. Quit watching porn and go for a walk.

2007-07-06 19:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 5 · 1 1

Back up folks.Yes there is a definite problem here - but remember, rape is about CONTROL not sex. I think your life is out of control and your fantasies betray the deep psychological need you have for someone else to step in and control you. Thus, they control your out of control life. Seek counseling.

2007-07-06 19:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetkat 5 · 1 0

ah thats what you meant from the other post...uh sorry no I don't really think its normal. It sounds like a lot of repressed sexual energy and/or....anger.
if you were abused, raped when you were younger, this could be why. But if not, then I think its a dangerous, out of balanced sex drive. if its you you're talking about..its obviosuly something emotional inside you..you need to figure that out. maybe you feel guilty about sex or dirty or something like that.. You need realize that you shouldn't feel guilty about having sex(unless you're raping..), and like everything else, it needs to be balanced

2007-07-06 19:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by Danu 6 · 1 0

No that is not normal! why would anyone have sexual fantasies over a woman are someone child being raped thats just sick!

2007-07-06 19:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by Jewlery 2 · 2 0

NO NOT NORMAL TO SEE YOUNG GIRLS GET RAPED THAT A SAD SITUATION TO BE IN. YOUR BEST BET IS TO SEE A COUNSELOR IN ADDITION U PROBABLY WENT THROUGH A DRAMATIC EXPERIENCE WHEN U WERE YOUNGER N IT MAKES U FEEL THAT WAY..BEST THING TALK TO A COUSELOR THERAPIST

2007-07-06 23:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by Kat Von D 2 · 1 0

Not normal or healthy at all. You should see a counselor about this. You can send me an email if you need to.

2007-07-06 19:16:23 · answer #9 · answered by What's Up? 6 · 2 0

Well its not normal. Causes could be and most likely are stemming from child hood issues where she felt powerless and was hurt.

Remember rape isn't about the sex, its about controling someone.

2007-07-06 19:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 3 1

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