we had unprotected sex about 3 weeks ago, but i never came anywhere near to orgasm. in other words i did not ejaculate because we ended quickly. She has no cramping, and no bloating. she usually has those symptoms during normal periods and her blood flow is usually heavy. she told me this is the second time in her lifetime that she has had a light period like this, but this one was shorter (lasted about 3 days, today was the last day she thinks) she has no morning sickness or urge to go urinate and/or other typical pregnancy symptoms. yesterday we had protected sex during her period, which is why i think it might have ended earlier, but i have read a rumor on the internet that intercourse during your period can relieve you of your symptoms. is there a possibility that she is pregnant, or am I just really paranoid. She says that I am too paranoid, but I am just concerned because i cannot afford a child right now. if possible, is there anyway that I can get this off my mind??
2007-07-06 10:30:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Honestly i don't think she is...A period is still a period and depending on her stress level and different things going on in her life it can change her flow and how she feels....BUT i would say get her on birth control.... It does help with how she feels and her period and you will both feel a bit safer!!!
BIRTH CONTROL IS AN AMAZING THING!!!
2007-07-06 10:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that she is pregnant. Morning sickness can show up anywhere in your first trimester (first 3 months). Some people never experience morning sickness. A man doesn't necessarily have to ejaculate to impregnate. All of the fluids that come out are the same. If you aren't financially stable enough to afford a baby (if anyone can ever be) you shouldn't play the game unprotected. Honestly, pregnancy isn't the issue these days. You have to think of AIDS and all of the other STDs (not saying either of you is infected with anything, just a fact). I suggest taking your girlfriend to the health department to find out if she's pregnant. If she is please think of all of your options. If she is, remember...that baby isn't at fault, please don't abort. I am pro-choice all the way so it will be both of your decisions. If you choose not to keep the baby please give it up for adoption. If she's not pregnant consider yourself lucky and don't do this again.
P.S.
I had a friend who had a light period every month of her pregnancy.
2007-07-06 17:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, you can relieve your mind: you could also just buy her a pregnancy test, too.
I have different periods in summer than winter, and the summer ones tend to be lighter. I also had implantation bleeding (the light bleeding at the start of pregnancy phenomenon) and it lasted two days and was barely more than a little brown on a pantiliner. I never needed a pad, and that was a twin implantation.
Sex during my period helps the achiness, but never helped with my pregnancy symptoms (and I never had morning sickness or bloating, either, but I did get nauseated at night.)
I suggest you guys buy a test.
2007-07-06 17:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by M L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can ease your mind by buying her a pregnancy test and having her take it. If you can't afford a child right now, afford some birth control...seriously, condoms are cheaper than diapers! It doesn't matter if you ejaculate or not...pre-ejaculate contains sperm and can make a baby, too. That's why 26% of people using the pullout method become parents each year.That's 1 in 4...don't take those kinds of chances! Hopefully you'll get lucky this time. Just have her take the test, it's the only way to know.
2007-07-06 17:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by grayhare 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're being paranoid
maybe you shouldn't be having unprotected sex if you can't deal with the consequences. Her light period could be because you're stressing her out. Calm down and act like a man. My God! What if she was pregnant? You wouldn't be much of a comfort would you? You're not even the one who has to carry the baby.
2007-07-06 17:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by dahlia 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get it off your mind is to buy her a test and see and buy a box of condoms and spermicide for incase it comes out neg.
2007-07-06 18:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by SouthernRose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, might want to strap on an insurance plan next time. Sure it may not feel as good... but at least you're not in the hole for 18 years
2007-07-06 17:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by jamel_saves 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to use protection antime you engage in this activity. There is sperm in pre-ejaculate. I doubt your gf is pregnant. Tell her to take a test to be sure.
2007-07-06 17:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it is possible she is..she can get pregnant off of pre ejaculation..if you both are worried have her take a test or go to a planned parenthood.
2007-07-06 17:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by karrie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is a way to end your paranoia- buy a pregnancy test!
What other answer can we give?
2007-07-06 17:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋