If your husband is constantly talking about how good other women look and very rarely compliments you about anything how should you take that? Also if your husband is with you at clubs and starts texting his friends about other women in the clubs how would you react?
2007-07-06 10:24:27 · 16 answers · asked by Beotch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is so disrespectful. He's basically pushing you away. It sounds to me like he's pushing your buttons so you'll leave and he can be free.
2007-07-06 10:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by Violet 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What does it matter how everyone else would react? How did you react?
Sounds like your insecure in your relationship to begin with and thus trying to justify your feelings when no justification is required.
Time for a new life, one that's not spent in the clubs.
2007-07-06 17:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by broncoFan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd kick him in the nuts! Everyone is entitled to look, but if he is constantly talking about other women I would be extremely offended, especially if I was around! I'd sit him down for a serious talk, if nothing changes I'd bail! You don't need to be treated like that by anyone!
2007-07-06 17:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by FirefighterWife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would slap his as.s across the face!! I wish my husband would even think to do that. I mean hell we have been driving in the car and saw a woman with a huge BUtt and I would say something and he would agree. That's fine and all but for him to text a buddy about another chick. Thats not cool
2007-07-06 17:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by Cutie Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be hurt, and I'd talk to him about it. I'd just try to explain that I get self-conscious when he talks about other women in that way while I'm there, and ask him to please try to keep it on the down-low.
I'd also make sure I'm not a)fishing for compliments or b)rejecting his compliments (i.e., "I like that top, honey" ..."This thing? It makes me look so fat!") because both would keep him from offering genuine compliments.
I wouldn't resort to assault, though. But maybe that's just me. ;)
2007-07-06 17:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be very upset and ticked off. I would try to see what is up but more than that i wont deal with it. If i saw him texting ppl about other women i would just leave. no need to sit there and watch it!
2007-07-06 18:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by Siroonig 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband shouldn't be doing that. It means you two got problems in your marriage now. Do something about it.
2007-07-06 17:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you text him pictures of sexy guys you see at the clubs? I wonder if he would like that?
2007-07-06 17:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat him at his own game. Start making comments about men and give him a taste of his own medicine! If you are too chickensh*t for that, then leave him- dont allow yourself to be disrespected.
2007-07-06 17:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by GiGi! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget everyone else...what have you done about this? Nothing? Figures. Oh...but you ARE here asking, aren't you?
Get real. Why do you find it necessary to validate your reactions or lack thereof here?
2007-07-06 17:33:42 · answer #10 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋