I am a 33 year old grown man and when I turned 22 I became seriously addicted to strip clubs. I started going 2 to 3 times per week and havent been able to stop. Its been an exciting escape for me. To date, I have squandered in access of $50,000 and I am not kidding about that. One night at scores of las vegas, I spent over $2000 and Dennis Rodman was there next to me spending much much more and I dont make a great deal of money in my job but somehow I find the money for this activity. I feel so guilty about all the money Ive spent and all the girls Ive touched. I feel very sinful and I feel I have wasted my youth. I mean i love women and sex and I dont think I am any different than any other man. Is what I did that bad or am I normal guy ?
2007-07-06 10:23:22 · 10 answers · asked by Black Jack 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sorry, not normal, especuially because it makes you feel guilty and like you wasted your youth. But the strippers all know where they're getting their next line from when you walk into the club!
2007-07-06 10:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by 1M9 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's bad and not healthy. You are lacking something in your life and you need to get some help. It probably gives you some kind of high and makes you feel good to give the money away. I would try to figure out whats going on inside.
2007-07-06 10:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is an addiction. You have to break this addiction. You are already experiencing Guilt and are Becoming broke because of this. Its like a compulsion like gambling. But...don't be so down on yourself.
Your ESCAPE route from this self-destructive lifestyle is GOD. Be immersed in, tell him your worries, tell him your cares and watch him change your life for the better. Also, I would suggest to go to the gym everyday, eat healthy, do things to distract yourself from going to the strip club. Wean yourself little by litte...try to go one less time a week, try to spend half of what you spend in a strip club them nothing at all, then try to go only twice a month then don't go at all. You can do it. I have faith in you :) You need to have faith in yourself now!
2007-07-06 10:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by ~~~Tara~~~ 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my take on this is that you have to ask yourself: was it worth it? at the end of the day do you feel happy with yourself? because if you do then keep going with it, because all that really matters in life is that you are happy with yourself. if you are unhappy because of the strip clubs then stop, it you are happy then who gives a crap?
2007-07-06 10:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an addiction and you are totally wasting your money. No, it is not normal. It is controlling your life. Get therapy.
2007-07-06 10:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have the money to blow it off like that, then why not??? If you have a sex addiction you need help.
2007-07-06 10:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't say you are a bad guy. However, your name is pretty much spot on.
2007-07-06 10:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by Ben-E-Hana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's not my cup of tea, but everyone needs a hobby, so i guess there's nothing wrong with it.. besides it's just money..
2007-07-06 10:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Hookers give alot more for alot less!
2007-07-06 10:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by Premaholic 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
its not normal...get help.
2007-07-06 10:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋