got nothing better to do? i know i would love to look them in the eyes and say, "well, do you feel lucky punk?" wouldn't you agree that when you realized that you had been a trusting sucker all your life and land in a world of ****, well, why not get a last satisfaction rather than dying while you know they had screwed you good and were living large as a result. no bleeding jesus freaks pl e e z e ! TELL ME shouldn't i do something like get a good old fashioned ancient GREEK revenge! huh? explain.
2007-07-06 08:51:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
the best revenge is to live so well that you don't remember what others have done to you in the past...
let them wallow in the gutter. you rise above it.
2007-07-06 08:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel just like you about getting even with all the people in my life who have screwed me. I finally realized that they were still messing with me because I allowed it to bother me so much. The best revenge is to live a happy, successful life yourself and forget they ever existed. Seeking revenge can only get you in trouble. They'll get what's coming to them eventually. What goes around comes around at some point in life.
2007-07-06 08:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, life will take care of them. No one leaves without paying for what they have done. If not now, then later. Why would you stoop to their level, risking to ruin your life to get back to them? Are they worth your life for some mere satisfaction? And after you get back at them, then what will you do? It will just cause a chain reaction of nonsens. They are probably expecting it and will laugh even harder if something goes wrong and you end up in jail or destroy your future just trying to take things in your own hands. Brush it off, and one of these days you will see how things happen on their own!
2007-07-06 08:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mary Laurita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am far from religious but revenge is never the answer. you learn from you past mistakes and move on. The best thing to do is avoid being in the same places as the people who have made you this upset. Find real friends and be couscous . Move on.
2007-07-06 09:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by done with this sorry codessuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just forget about them, they are only taking the best of you...concentrate on being better than them and it will make you feel good inside. Thats what I did....I am way better off than all of the popular kids in my high school and now I say HAA losers!! thats what they get and all I did was better myself. " Acknowledge and move forward..revenge is not the answer"
2007-07-06 09:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by EI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma buddy....Karma. They will get theirs. If you do something to get them back for the ignorant crap they did, guess who gets in legal trouble? You. They get off looking like the innocent victim. Be the bigger person, i know how cliche that sounds, but take the high road and ignore them. You'll be better off in the long run. You'll get the last laugh.
2007-07-06 08:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by Marie C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have that much need for revenge then you have a real forgiveness issue. If you write, purging might be a great release for you to get to that state of peaceful mind!
2007-07-06 09:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by Reba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to get my mind filled with conflict all the time, so that's why I'd rather let it go.
2007-07-06 08:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by the Boss 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seeking revenge is one of the lowest things you can do
2007-07-06 08:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone hurts you, in anyway, you should not get back at them...its what they want...
they are bullys if they hurt you, but it would be wrong to get back at them...
be the better person...
they hurt you, stand up tall and ignore them.
2007-07-06 08:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋