ALL THE TIME I read about women complaining about their husbands looking at porn. Yet these are the SAME women who think that sex for 10-15 minutes every other month should be enough to satisfy their husbands! THEN....in your answers you insist that if your husbands really want more sex from you then they should do more to help you with housework, help more with the kids, buy you flowers, buy you jewelry, take you to expensive dinners, or wisk you away on weekend vacations! All this ON TOP OF working to pay the mortgage, the bills, the groceries, school clothes, video games, I-phones, and your hair & nails! AND ALL WITH A SMILE!
Since when did a little loving from our wives become such a friggin hassle? What's wrong with an orgasm or two or three for you and one for us at the end? And since when did taking things into our own hands instead of CHEATING ON YOU become such a crime? Like we don't know you have a vibrator in your night stand!!!!
2007-07-06 08:25:23 · 17 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hear you.
You know what really galls me? That they use sex to manipulate us. They use their bodies and sex to get us to do things they want... and even then, it's never enough. We could do everything they want us to do... and then, just to be spiteful, wouldn't give it up. It's sick and wrong.
2007-07-06 08:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by just nate 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Lets break this down 10-15 minutes every other month.
That means that if you had sex one time every month it would last 5-7 minutes...there in lies the problem...why would a woman want to have sex with her husband if all he's going to do is hump on her for 5-7 minutes, even 10-15 minutes when on average it can take about 20-30 minutes for a woman to orgasm with the proper stimulation...and buddy a little ding-a-ling going in and out isn't the proper stimulation.
And that doesn't include the warm up, i.e. fore play!
As for the porn, I personally don't get women who say that. But you lost me after the 10-15 minute comment...Seriously if thats all the time my man can give me in one sex session...it isn't worth my efforts.
2007-07-06 08:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't complain about my husband looking at porn because he either doesn't do it or keeps it well hidden. I've asked him about it and he says that he's outgrown it for the most part. Not that he doesn't enjoy looking every once in a while it's just not a way of life for him. As far as sex goes, I have a higher sex drive than he does. He gets oral sex every time and about 75% of the time I'm on top. I don't barter with or for sex. I have sex because I love sex and enjoy sex and I love my husband!!! I also work, go to school, pay for my car, buy the groceries, do the housework and take care of my son. At the same time, I love flowers, jewelry and a night on the town. I do things because I love my husband and I believe he does things for me because he loves me. Marriage is not a game for keeping score. You do things because you want to not because of what you hope to get back!!!
2007-07-06 08:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your woman is just a loooooser.....I dont know many women who are not out working just as hard, many earning just as much or more to "pay the mortgage and buy the husband his video game". Then coming home taking care of the kids, making supper, cleaning up and then having a husband who has been sitting in the lazy boy, with his feet up because he was tired after work, ask for a ********!!!
HMMMM sounded a little angry didnt it...cause it was, you guys are so archaic
2007-07-06 09:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by Bite me 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Married couples need to read Porper care and feeding of husbands--by dr laura schinger--- This all started with the feminist movement of late 60's thru part of the 00 but it is changing because man has changed to accomdate that behavior as we are seeing now in relationship i feel for you because this is just how my EX was. Now ive moved on and found a wonderful women who isnt like that just a reminder of how we treat are selves how good a relationship can be if all try to please are spouses!!!! WOMEN OF THAT GROUP 60'S AND 00 THAT ARE A PART OF THE MOVEMENT-- Pay attention !! and learn what the new ladies are doing
2007-07-06 08:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by keithleyjustin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know about your wife. since you didnt say she a house wife or a working woman.
there woman that have 1 -2 full time job and pay all the bills too.
yes its nice for the husband to help with the bill and buy the things for the house hold .
nail and hair stuff well im sure your buy fishing things or tool men toys ect.
anyways its not really about porno its the fact is your looking at other woman might make her feel more unsecure.
2007-07-06 08:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL.... I don't what married women you have been talking to but it seems like they are nagging a whole lot.
I am a married woman and I am going to give you a diffent view on other married women:
**I know many married women that don't mind their husband watching porn, as a matter a fact they watch it together.
**I also know of married women that work fulltime and come home to take care of the house, kids and still have energy to please their husband.
**I also know these women and confident of themselves and are very happy in their marriges. Like always there are difficult moments but with love it all works out.
**I also know many many married women that work hard and guy themselves things not expecting to get things from the husband.
So I could go on and on but I am not. And I am sure there are many strong and happy married women out there that will agree with me.
Good luck
2007-07-06 08:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by sweetsarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are we back to this subject Drew? You're beautiful wife just gave you twins. Do you know how hard that can be for a woman? Her body will never be the same (and she knows it)......she is exhausted from taking care of the kids and her role has changed from sex kitten to the lunch counter and butt wiper. Give her a break. Do you tell her she is beautiful every now and then WITHOUT expecting sex in return for the compliment? Do you do ANYTHING special just for her WITHOUT it being a ploy for sex? Do you compare her post pregnancy body to those of the porn pic you look at and remind her that it will be great when she loses that last bit of weight?
I told you last time you asked--give your wife a break. Adjusting to being a mom is difficult enough...........life will eventually get back to normal........but you have to be willing to help your wife out.
2007-07-06 08:38:07 · answer #8 · answered by Cherie 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well at least you know where I keep my "toy"LOL!!! It's in the night stand. Women don't really consider sex "lovin". It's a physical act we have to be prepared for. We have to stop what we are doing(even if it's watching our favorite TV show)undress, let the man go at it. Get up, take a shower, put in a tampon or drip for 2 days...Yep, real turn on. You might try some alcohol...that tends to loosen me up, even when I'm Not in the mood.
2007-07-06 08:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by janice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not one of those women.. I don't mind porn either.. My guy starts off watching it but in the end his attention is on what we are doing.. Oh and don't think that all men pay for everything.. I make more then my man does & pay for more as well..
2007-07-06 08:37:35 · answer #10 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting. I think your post is funny and I am a married woman. I don't mind porn, if my husband is watching it with me. . . and you're right about the vibrator in the nightstand. LOL!
2007-07-06 08:32:46 · answer #11 · answered by LS's wife 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋