My sister-in law filled for divorce but she is using my office as a childcare with my consent?

Question

My husband has an office in a little town same city where my sister in law live, and after cheating, she filled for divorce and she is fighting to obtain full custody of two children and for alimony, now she left once my nephews at my office without notice, she doesn't talk to me for years, but she is trying to use my office as a childcare with no consent of our part, that way she can go out with the new boyfriend, should I go to police or social services, what can I do?

Answer 1

Before you call the police, you need to weigh how much drama you want in the family, and how important you relationship with your sister-in-law's husband's family is.

If you want it to be settled nicely, then you need to talk to her without any fear and tell her "Look, tyou can't leave the kids here. It's an office, I can't watch them. Please find a better solution."
Also talk to your husband. SOmetimes, a man's intervention has more power.

If you don't care about settling things nicely, then you can call the police, and she can be accused of negligence towards small children by abandoning them at someone's work site.

Good luck. For the sake of your nephews, I hope you chose the first option.

Answer 2

Call her husband everytime she leaves the kids at your office. Don't get social services involved because they will just keep them and they won't be able to be with their father. Start making a record of when she leaves them and when she comes to get them. Since she was the one to cheat, she doesn't deserve alimony or child support. Those kids deserve to be with a loving parent who is trustworthy. I know it sounds dirty, but sometimes you have to look out for what is best for the children involved instead of the selfish parent.

Answer 3

First of all, you say with your consent, then you say no consent on "our" part, so make up your mind, which is it?

So she accidently left her kid once? Big deal. It was once.

Why are you going to call the police because you are babysitting for her? If you don't want to watch the kids, say no. She's entitled to go out and have fun sometimes too.

Answer 4

First send her a writen letter making it clear she does not have your consent to do this. This should cover you legally if something goes wrong while you straighten it out.

Next contact the agency who lisences child care centers in your area, and speak with the case worker who is overseeing her child care center, Each one is usually designated a specific person, and make sure you get the facts, and if needed forward her a copy of your letter to your sister-inlaw.

then stand back and wait for the FUR to fly.

be patient, and professional, and just stand your ground. but most of all let her know you understand her situation, but your not going to be legally liable for her actions and she needs to make other arrangements,

God Bless

Answer 5

call the police & social services & her husband i mean your bro let him know whats going on she not fix to be a mother

Answer 6

first I would tell her if she dont knock it off I will report her to athorities and if she dont stop call them! the kids deserve better

Answer 7

You have no grounds to go anywhere but to her, put her in her place. Use your foot and plant it right up her ***.