I want to find someone that is single but I still think about my ex wife everyday what should I do?

Question

I have been married to the same woman twice and both times ended in divorce but I still love her but she doesn't feel the same about me. I also want to do what is right in God's eyes

Answer 1

It sounds like you need to take some time for yourself and get past her. You don't have to stop loving her but you need to let her go in your mind. You will never have a good functioning relationship if you don't let her go.

Answer 2

I still love her but she doesn't feel the same about me. That comment right there outta tell ya that the only thing u have to gain by going back to this woman is hurt. As far as doing whats right in gods eyes well....u have been divorced twice. I really dont think that god would wish upon you any more hurt and pain ....rather i think that when the time comes and you meet that special someone u will forget all about this woman and finally experience the happiness we all deserve.

Answer 3

Sometimes things just aren't meant to be, no matter how hard
we try. So stop beating yourself up. You've given her all you
have, and it's still not enough. So it's time to stop the punish-
ment you keep giving yourself,and move on.
Just devote your life right now, to doing things you want to
do, and start healing. Play sports or do activities you enjoy.
Keep yourself busy, and allow time for play also. Give yourself
rewards, without an excuse. Many of us already know, that
you never find someone when you are actively 'looking'.
People seem to gravitate to you when you aren't looking and
just keeping busy,doing what you need to do each day. When
the time is right, someone will walk into your life, and be your
friend, when you least expect it. And that's what you need
more than a love interest right now. You need a friend. Guy
or girl, it doesn't matter. Just someone to be with and share
things of interest. The time for dating will come. Just don't
be in such a hurry. As you'll be on the rebound, and that would
make for a false friendship, when you are feeling hurt and
want someone to stop it.
My best relationships, came when I wasn't looking or ex-
pecting them. God knows what's in your heart. He feels your
pain. But he's given you common sense, and free will. Now
it's up to you to use them practically. Get out to open spaces.
Go to parks and soak up the sun. Watch a ball game. Watch
people swim, you swim. Enjoy life. What better time to get
out and enjoy nature than now, since it's summer. No need to
be shut in on days off now. Be a free'er spirit than you have
allowed yourself to be in a long time. You deserve it. So get
your chin up, stop feeling sorry for yourself. You'll find some-
one who'll love you for all you've got to give. Just give them
time to find you. Don't go for superficial types, who want to
just use you and party on. Look for the real people to come
into your life. Just let things happen, and enjoy life.
And above all, be well!

Answer 4

Until you are ready to move on from the ex then you cannot start a relationship with someone else. It will only end in hurt and unhappiness. Try to take some time for you and learn to let go.

Answer 5

And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I dont want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.
When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left

The bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.
Let them go.
And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person, it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead

Answer 6

First I suggest you analize your past marriage, and be honest about what you might have done wrong..

now read Smart Love, and His Needs, Her needs, and The 5 Love languages,

Now try going on a few dates, nothing major, just go out to have fun. but go out with a purpose.

1) find someone your comfortable with, and "LISTEN to her.

Don;t talk about how bad your life is, or how much you "LOVE" the ex. Act like it's over and move on.

2) ask several Women out, get to know them a bit, try avoiding sleeping with them right away, and concentrate on chemistry, and watching their body language, learn to read a woman, and try acting like your calm, confident and mature,
EVEN if you DONT feel like it. ACT on it.

The more you try the more confident you become, and prety soon women will notice. Be finalcially responsible. also


for now move on, If the Ex is supposto be in your life something will bring her back, but stop puting your life on hold, until she gets her head on striaigh. start LIVING your life, and the rest will work it self out.

God Bless

Answer 7

GODs eyes arent the issue here. YOU need to get the wife out of your system before you try to move on.

Answer 8

Sounds like you need to meet someone really fantastic that will help you move on from the other girl... (first mistake, you married her a second time.) Just move on. If you can't make her happy, and it sounds like she didn't make you happy... then move on. Good luck.

Answer 9

You cant keep doing this to yourself. Let her go and take some time to be by yourself. You have to get over her before you can move on.

Answer 10

OK...WWJD then?

You people crack me up. Didn't God look down on divorce, and you did it twice? Who knows...I don't read the bible and don't care to do so either.