well my husband was talking to his ex and he told her thar he misses her and still is in love with her. on that same conversation he told her that he wanted to leave me cuz hes tired of me going through hes stuff. i approached him and he said it was true but he just said that to see what she would tell him back. i tried leaving him and he cried and begged me not leave him. so im so confused...
2007-07-06 07:59:38 · 22 answers · asked by Luv4ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-07-06 08:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well by just hearing your story, i can't really give you any advice. Only you know how your husband is and a guy will cry and do and say whatever he can to get to you but if you think he's being really sincere and true about what he said. Then give him a second chance. He hasn't cheat or have sex with other people. If you think he is really cheating on you and stuff like that then why hold the relationship. He's not being honest and fair with you. But this is all up to you. Listen to your heart. Only your heart knows and feels whats right and whats wrong.
2007-07-06 15:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by M@caroni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships are so complicated in my opinion. If he wanted to leave he will, I advise don't wait on him to abandon you. He is talking to his ex, bad or good- that depends, I did....but I was honest about it with my fiance. There is always that chance that something might happen, so yesterday I told him I will no longer contact him. But anyways, what I really want to say is that communication is everything. My opinion on this situation u wrote about, he doesn't want to be alone, so he is searching. second chance, I hope you both had a deep talk and u set some guidelines. i don't think there is a right a wrong in what to do in relationships. there is only good and bad and that depends on what two people agree on. if u snoop in his personal things and he doesn't like, that is conflict, so not that u two aren't meant 2 b, but its gonna take some compromise, sacrifice. good luck!
2007-07-06 15:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by rd03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definately doesn't know what he wants and I think you should leave the man, And his crying like a baby trick is just his way for you to stay with him and put up with more of his crap. Kick him to the curb and you deserve much better who would never have second thoughts about loving someone else other than you! GOOD LUCK!
2007-07-06 15:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you confused about? If he wouldn't have got caught he'd still be doing it.. I think he's crying cause he got busted not for you! If he cared about you than why would he going back to the ex...leave b4 you get left! RUN
2007-07-06 15:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going through your husbands things is rude and just shows that you don't trust him. He's probably tired of that (I know I would be).
As far as taking him back, if you do you both need to go to counseling b/c it sounds as there's some trust issues that need to be dealt with.
2007-07-06 15:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by King H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does he care what she would say- he is obviously still attached to her if he wants to know "what she thinks". tears arent always genuine, I think you should tell hiim you need space to thnk about it and see if he tries to get with her in the mean time or if he focuses all his energy on getting you back, whoever he fights for is the one he should stay with and if he goes 50/50 for both of you then she can have him- u know! Youll be better without his undecided ***!
2007-07-09 11:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by noodle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so disrespectful. I would leave him. If he wanted me back, I would take him to couple's counseling. He should not even be talking to his ex or telling you that he wants to leave you. He sounds like he is into mind games.
2007-07-06 15:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by Twizz1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is confused about what he wants. I would leave him, anyone who still tell's there ex how much he loves her is not ready for a commitment to you!
2007-07-06 15:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by dirttrackgirl_77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt be confused, you shouldnt waste your time with someone like that. why would he be talking to his ex about you and if he loved you why would he even say stuff like that about you? why would he even care what she would say in response to that. if your the one he loves and wants to be with why would he even go there? you need a better man, you dont need drama and it sounds like your gonna get stuck with alot of it, especially with him talking with his ex all of the time.
2007-07-06 15:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by luvleebabygurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt give him another chance because he just got caught this one time. There is no telling how often he says the things that he did to her to other women.
2007-07-06 15:04:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋