2007-07-06 07:25:06 · 33 answers · asked by Giggly Giraffe 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Interesting that some of you used the word, "Shallow" as this question came from watching the movie, "Shallow Hall."
2007-07-09 05:29:37 · update #1
Theres no point in telling them.
Because they are dating tht person and to them that person is good looking, just cuz u think the person is ugly wont have any affect on them all it does is tell them that you are into looks better than personalitys type thing.
2007-07-06 07:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by B3MR2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what. Looks are not always everything. First of all what you think as beautiful may be the opposite of what your friend sees in that person. Personally i think it is rather rude that you would even think that way. It tells me that you are probably younger and at the age of looks being everything. I would hope that because your friend likes this person should say something like looks do not matter to them . That and because you think that person is ugly does not mean they are obviously your friend sees something in that person that you do not. So no you should not say anything about them being ugly that is just not right.Not to mention it is very shallow of you.
2007-07-07 06:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by Chris&Rose J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. What an insult that would be, to tell someone that the person they thought enough of to date was ugly. Ugliness and beauty are very relative terms. Just because I think somebody might be ugly doesn't mean that it's necessarily so. Anyhow, I've got more manners than to ever say such an awful thing, especially to someone I considered a friend.
2007-07-06 08:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by solarius 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Certainly not! That's an awful question. Physical beauty is completely subjective, if they are happy with the person then there's nothing wrong with it. You don't need to be attracted to the people that your friends date. That's between them and the person they're dating. Stay out of it, if you tell them that you think their date is ugly it might get bad between you and your buddy because lets face it, no one likes being told they have bad taste. I'm sure your friend isn't blind and knows what he/she looks like and is happy with it. So leave them to be.
2007-07-06 07:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by Nerdy Knitter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, your not ugly just because your dark-skinned. My brother is dark-skinned and had the same experiences in middle school. Kids are just immature at that age. And some people just have a preference. Cant really change their preference though. I dont like light-skinned guys for some reason. but again, thats just a preference of mine. Young berg...eh he's old news by now with that comment he made. Ever since he said that he's been making it a point to be pictured with dark-skinned to get his fan base back.
2016-05-19 23:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't be so shallow,apparently your friend sees something in the person that he's dating that goes beyond the surface, remember "beauty is in the eye of the beholder."
2007-07-06 07:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by SHANE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was shallow enough to believe that looks are in any way more important than compatability and happiness, then yeah, I guess I would. Hopefully my buddy, who it appears is a deaper person would tell me to take a hike.
2007-07-06 07:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by toff 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
not unless my buddy was blind, if they are not blind then they can see what the other person looks like, and they can see things in them that you can not, so as long as they are not hurting your friend, why ruin things for them? be a real friend and support your buddy even if they are not doing what YOU think is right. You can't judge a book by it's cover!!
2007-07-06 08:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say NO... because beauty is all in the eye of the beholder. Your buddy may see the individual for more than just the way they look on the outside.
2007-07-06 07:30:57 · answer #9 · answered by Shantae S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r a very shallow person for even considering to tell them
2007-07-06 07:44:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋