without being rude?
I have an aquaintence who likes to come over, and I don't mind, but she likes to stay for HOURS AND HOURS! lol
Any advise??
2007-07-06 06:37:14 · 21 answers · asked by ? 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I do like her,but wow!
2007-07-06 06:37:51 · update #1
Be clear and firm. Say, "well, _______, thanks for dropping by! I have a lot to do , so I'll walk you out."
2007-07-06 06:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetkat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just sit there and act uninterested in anything she says. Of course, judging by your details, this won't be difficult. When she comes over and it's obvious she'll be there for a while, get into a bad mood. Not an angry bad mood, but the kind where it's obvious you want to be left alone. Make sure the TV is on and when she starts in just stare at it with a blank look on your face. Sooner or later, she'll get bored and/or she'll get the hint.
Also, you could always pretend you're not at home or you're asleep on the couch or something like that.
To be perfectly honest, my unwanted company doesn't come through my door. Thank God for whoever invented peep-holes!
2007-07-06 13:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After she leaves, hire a reputable contractor to install a hidden trap door in the floor, like on Scooby Doo. Cover over it with a carpet and count the minutes until her next visit.
2007-07-06 13:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best way is the truth.
It's so crazy that we put up with stuff like this. Just take your stand nicely.
Or, go over to her place more often. Then you can leave when you have had enough.
2007-07-06 13:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honesty is the best policy
say go away politely
but then in a day or two
do something nice for them
but remind them of too much
together time is just too much
2007-07-06 13:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I heard about that from someone its not a joke- The wife went and got dress with her pajamas and start to excises and they got the message.
2007-07-06 13:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by Isabella789 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she should try out for the role of a cling~on on the new star trek!
2007-07-06 13:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break out the Yahtzee.
2007-07-06 13:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by Slick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just leave the room and go to sleep. She'll probably get the idea.
2007-07-06 13:39:28 · answer #9 · answered by jamsie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger, I worried over this.
Now I simply say I'm tired and ask them to leave.
2007-07-06 13:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by gldnsilnc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask her nicely to leave when you want her to leave.if she rings before she comes just tell her that you're busy or something.it is very hard isn't it?. it's easy said then done.give it a go and good luck.
2007-07-06 13:42:19 · answer #11 · answered by xyz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋