Im 15 years old and pregnant?

Question

Can someone just please help me. I dont want to have an abortion but im too young and the daddy is 19. What do i do.

I cant talk to my parents cause im scared they will kick me out.

Also can anyone give me advice on what to say to my parents if i do tell them because i dont want me boyfriend to go to jail because if i do have this baby, it has to have a father

Answer 1

I thought you were 17?!? Please quit telling your lies on here and get a life.

If you are really 15 and having sex with a 19 year old I hope you two get caught and his a** gets sent to jail!

Answer 2

I wouldn't have an abortion, the first thing you have to do is tell your parents, and the father. You may want to confide in a cousin or best friend or aunt (someone you trust) and this way maybe they can sit down with you and your parents and talk it over. It can be done, it will be hard, but you can do it. Just take a deep breath and relax, you will get through this. You also need to make a doctors appointment to confirm the pregnancy and start your prenatal vitamins. Good luck, I know you can do this!

Answer 3

OK - first, how will your parents react (aside from the initial death treats to you and the daddy)? Are/were you in a relationship with the dad? Do your parents trust you/him?
If they trust you and you were in a relationship with the dad and they know him, then it might not be as bad as you think.
If you are still too scared to talk to them, go to a local clinic and explain the situation. They may be able to set you up with someone to mediate and help you tell your parents. There is really no way out of telling them, chances are they will bear much of the burden for this child.
If you decide not to abort, then make sure that you see your OBGyn regrularly, take your prenatal vitamins, eat well...and figure out what you are going to do regarding the dad. He has financial responsibility to you and this child.
But please, for your sake and the baby's - talk to your parents. It will be one of the most difficult talks you will ever have to have - but they are your parents, they love you and they want th best for you,.they will helpy ou through this.
Good Luck and take care.

Answer 4

Didn't you say in an earlier question that you were 17? I've been reading through your questions and I gotta say you didn't do a whole lot to take responsibility for yourself in this situation. I'd be willing to bet you never used protection of any sort.

You need to take responsibility now. You may not be an adult yet, but you've certainly put yourself in an adult situation by making adult choices, so now it's time to step up. Talk to your parents. Decide on an action to take with them.

I suggest you get an abortion. This planet is far too over populated and the last thing we need is one more messed-up psyche caused by an unfit mother. Wait till your older before you start having kids.

Answer 5

I was 15 with my first chlid and now I have been married for 5 years and have four children all together. I was scared to tell my parents, one cause of the boyfriend, two because I was suppose to be the good one but I couldnt let that stop me. I told my parents, I sat them down with no one else around and confronted them with the situation. Of course you will be scared but take a deep breath and do it. Dont wait to long because then that showing your not ready for adult hood if you cant take the responsiblity that comes with having sex. Dont think of your boyfriend, think of you and the baby frist. The parents might be upset with both of you, but Im sure they come around to understand that the baby will be better of with both parents. And if you and your boyfriend cant stay toghter through this thats fine too. You just have to tell yourself that you can do, one step at a time. My boyfriend left me and he was also over age, but it was better that way. My son was born with a lot of complicantion and it was him and me. I still had my parents there for me but not the father of the baby. Having my son at a early age helped me. There are a lot of people that I would speak with that are not doing so great in life. Having my son made me stronger of a person, my parents respected me more and I wasnt afraid to grow up fast, sometimes I still look at my son now thats 7 and think him. If it wasnt for him I wouldnt where I am today. I would of maybe went down the wrong path like a lot of younger kids. Just remember that you are a woman and telling your parents is right thing to do. Its going to be scary and crazy around your home for days Im sure but just remember its just not you, you are now taking care of the baby growing inside you. Another thing is with my son being born early and with so many complication, I met so many people. I was even a spoke person for young moms dealing with special need babies. There is so much that youll learn through this pregnancy, but dont let anyone tell you different. You can do it, keep the baby for one and make your family. Dont think of not being able to go to school cause you can. I stayed home full time with my son, I took homeschooling, one the United States best homeschool around. I got my dimpola and was even exspected into colleges. Dont ever think its the end because its not its just a whole new beinging. Please email me anytime at [e-mail]. Its better to catch me during the day at work. Remember you can do it and stay strong. Take care of you and that baby.

Answer 6

talk to your parents and if they kick you out social services will take care of you (if the babys dad doesnt) you shouldnt have an abortion because that is like murdering a baby. can you imagine walking up to an infant and killing it? no right? thats because its wrong, its easy for a lot of people to have abortions because they cant see the baby and hold it yet. If you dont feel like you can handle a baby now then hav ethe baby and give it up for adoption! it will get an amazing home with lots of love! there are a ton of families out there that cant have children and would love to adopt your baby! good luck, god bless and email me if you would like to talk about this more ok honey? =] Angie

Answer 7

Sweety, hope the baby's father stay with you. Cause you both were irresponsible to not protect yourself sincerily you love him but the truth is he won't probably stay. You see boys this days won't stay with the baby's mother. I'm sorry that so young you have to go through this.

The best thing is to tell your parents and of course the baby's father.

You see if he stay with you there's a High chance you will divorce or separate. Cause parenting is a hard life but not impossible!!

Let him be around of course you must love him and I bet he is the "love of your life". But we get illusions with the boys.

I wish you the best of luck.

Now to study, work and be a mother!!!

Answer 8

Been there done that! I was 15 too! Believe me you are dong the right thing by not having an abortion. Jut tell your parents. They love you no matter what. I understand you being scared, and they probaly will be upset at first but things will work themselves out if you are honest about everything from the start.


Stay in school and do everything you can to be agood mother.

Answer 9

Tell your parents. Go to this site: http://www.pregnancycenters.org/teen.html

There is a toll-free number you can call to find help in your area. You don't have to have an abortion -- there are many, many childless couples out there waiting to adopt.

Lastly, please quit having unprotected sex. You are, as you have stated, too young for a baby. So why on earth would you risk it? Maybe you could save sex for when you are older (and wiser). Think about it.

Answer 10

I went back and read the rest of your questions and your either lying now or you were lying then. Are you 15 or 17? Is your boyfriend 19 or 22? Either way, you've been having sex with no regards as to what may happen. So did you get pregnant after sneaking your bf onto the cruise with you? I think your full of it..

Answer 11

i was 15 when i had my daughter 2 weeks ago and a week later i turned 16. its hard believe me i know and my babys dad was older than me too and the only reason he never got in trouble was because 1 i lied to him about my age and 2 he was being responsible and wanted top be in the babys life. i actually didnt have to tell my parents my mom kind of told me...funny huh. like most teens my period wasnt regular and i didnt notice really when i was missing it and i confused morning sickness for the stomach flu. my mom made a joke about it over thanksgiving dinner it was so embarrasing. she then bought me a pregnancy test and my boyfriend was with me when i took it. we needed help reading it so we called her down and asked her and she said its positive and she went upstairs and told my dad well hi grandpa and he got the hint. believe me my parents werent happy but they were supportive they wanted me to make my own decisions on what i wanted to do but their only thing was no matter what i must finish school. at first my parents didnt really acknoledge my pregnancy at all then they gradually become open to it and started talking about it. now that she is here my mom cant keep her lips off of her she even calls to talk to her no one else. its hard but you can do it