guys seem to be always asking me for sex and head and stuff, but I'm not really comfortable doing it. Im in highschool and it seems like everyone does it so i dont know what to do.
2007-07-06 06:16:42 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Do whatever makes you feel comfortable. Most people in high school treat sex as a form of status. The more partners (or more popular ones) a person has sex with, the more they're recognized.
If you want to share sex with another guy (whether it be intercourse or oral), make sure you want to do it with him. Don't do it because everyone else is doing the same thing. Believe me, you will have plenty of opportunities once you get to college. The last thing you want is catching a disease or getting pregnant. There's no rush now.
2007-07-06 06:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by Blazen Elite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys ask because it's in their minds and their hormones are bursting up. However, that doesn't mean that you have to do it if you don't want to. Other gilrs may do it because they want to, they want to be popular, they are curious, their peers are pushing it on them, they do it because they don't want to be "the virgin" anymore or just because they can. It's an individual choice. Nobody is making them do it. The guy asks and they say yes.
Having sex is not a game and it should be done when a person is completely sure and wants to do it. Use protection if don't want to get pregnant.
Guys have all kinds of excuses to ask for sex, such as "my balls will fall off, my penis hurts and if you don't do it it'll be your fault, I love you, I can't go any longer without sex, etc". The truth is that no guy will die from lack of sex and if they want it so bad they can use their own 5 fingers.
2007-07-06 13:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by cruisechloe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Highschool is way to young to be doing this in the first place. Look around and see how many of your friends have kids, are currently pregnant, have had abortions and/or bad reputations? You wanna end up like them? All it take is ONCE to alter your life's path. Let them bug you all they want – just say no. Kids having kid's is not right.
2007-07-09 10:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. If your not comfortable then don’t do it.
As a guy myself and having been in high school many years ago it felt like I was obligated to have sex or want sex. Be smarter than most and don’t let others talk you into it.
You will have many more regrets of doing it when you didn’t want to than not doing it at all.
2007-07-06 13:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can be jerks when it comes to sex. The testosterone is raging and they are only thinking about satisfying their primal need (that's one reason I am changing my sex to become a woman). Only you will know when it's the right time to have sexual relations, and it is a big step for any girl. Let's face it, girls have more to risk when having sex. Besides the possibility of getting pregnant, there's also the risk of getting a "reputation." So be carfeul, don't be afraid to confide in someone close to you, and don't ever EVER allow the pressure to get to you.
2007-07-06 13:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the crowd is not always correct. So you choose what is correct for you. Thus you have no regrets later. The mere fact that you are asking the question should tell you something. It is very cool to be unique, A La Fois prochaine
2007-07-06 13:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by jay devore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you should just let the guys know that you really arn't ready to do this kind of stuff. Your only in highschool so you shouldn't feel pressured buy guys to be sexual with them untill your redy.. hope this helped =]
2007-07-06 13:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by Sammm. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything that you are not comfortable with. it's your body, and it's that time in your life when you need to be able to say no and not let it bother you. never let yourself get used by guys for sex. you'll have an entire lifetime to have sex and give guys head, don't let anybody rush you or try to make you feel guilty for not giving in.
2007-07-06 13:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it just for anyone. Get yourself a man that you LOVE. I think it is wrong to have sex just because. You dont want to be older and think back on how many guys you been with. You want that number to be low.
2007-07-06 13:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by wurm_15136 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable doing that stuff then tell him to back off and just cause everybody in your school does it don't mean u should give in.
2007-07-06 14:19:02 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋