married now. This really hurts. We all used to have such a wonderful time together laughing, having good times, etc. I would NEVER do anything wth him and I never have. How do I deal with this?
2007-07-06 04:43:41 · 6 answers · asked by ~~~Tara~~~ 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Even though you have all been friends for awhile, you have to come to terms with the fact that he's married now and so your friendship will have to change some. Your friendship now needs to be with them as a couple and you will probably not see them as often as you did before. That happens when friends get married. Their lives are together now and that should be their main focus. Try to understand and stay in touch with them.
2007-07-06 05:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Who's telling you she is saying this? You might be making mountains out of pixy dust. I would probably get the truth before I assumed anything. I would probably find a way to be around them having a conversation then mention how you miss hanging with them. Try to arrange some time to do it, if they try to get out of it, ask them directly if they have a problem with you.
Don't assume that they are doing something behind your back, if they were ever really friends, they probably still are . . you know, they might just be focusing on each other and not thinking about you right now.
If it turns out they are dissin' ya . . the best revenge you can have is to live a better life without them.
2007-07-06 11:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're on your own buddy.... You shouldn't be too friendly with anothyer woman's man- & he shouldn't be too friendly with you either, it only bring up bad thoughts. Just deal with it, he's not your man, & yah never did anything So whatz the problem? The only reason why it would bother you so much is if you feel something for him or like him. Leave the situation alone, everyone gets jealous in their own way, maybe your friends mom consider her husband flirting when he's being too friendly, everyone has to keep their limits.
2007-07-06 11:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Lucky Charm♥ 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Just continue being their friend. He should make his own decisions in life, and not avoid someone just because his mother-in-law told him what to do. She probably doesn't understand that this generation is more gender-neutral than her generation in that your generation was raised with boys instead of being segregated from them like her generation was.
This too, shall pass.
2007-07-06 12:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by Rainbow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats really pathetic of your friends mom. Keep doing what makes you happy, just dont cross the line. Confront them all if nessasary. *EDIT* Bethany love, dont listen to the girl below me. You seem like a great person and you have done nothing wrong whatsoever.
2007-07-06 11:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
looks like your friends mom is having the problem with you not them.they should be comfortable enough in their relationship to afford at one good friend.tell miss busybody to let sleeping dogs lie and MIND HER OWN BUSINESS!!!!!!
2007-07-06 16:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by cyrontae1110 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋