My Dad just can't find it in himself to love and accept me and I feel like he never will.
2007-07-06 03:57:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If you can look yourself in the mirror and believe that you are a good person and worthy of love and success, then you don't need anyone else to love or accept you. And if your father can't find it in him, then it's his loss.
2007-07-06 04:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by burghgirl 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it could seem to you're attaining for issues that are no longer available. as much because it hurts to hearken to it, there are some issues in existence we weren't meant to have. that doesn't advise you would be able to desire to resign and get discouraged. in case you placed your objectives and expectancies to severe and you do no longer attain those objectives you're putting your self up for failure. attempt something somewhat diverse, set a purpose you recognize you could gain, one that isn't impossible. Then as quickly as you have reached that purpose, set yet another one (you recognize is available), and save going from there. i'm no longer asserting decrease your objectives so low, they seem to hassle-free, yet via doing this it is going to do 2 issues. it is going to help your self-worth and you will finally gain your objectives. sometime at a time....
2016-12-10 03:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My kids went through that, too. I remember days where they would sit on their bikes by the railroad tracks waiting for him to show up on his visiting day. He never did. I was the one left to pick up the pieces of broken hearts of three lovely little girls. I wish they would think about the damage they do when they break a promise. Be strong, JR, be a better man than your Dad, k?
2007-07-06 04:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now you can throw in the towel and move on. Some ppl never change and you are wasting your time and energy trying.
2007-07-06 04:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by Smelly Cat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes you have to stop trying and he will come around sometime. Any parent should accept you for who you are, just tell him how you feel and I hope it works out!!
2007-07-06 04:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have done your part. Maybe one day he will learn to accept you for who you are. Until then, just live your live the best way you know how.
2007-07-06 04:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that it may be time to give up. I do not think that he wants to accept you.
:-)
2007-07-06 04:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by Tony M 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are many dad's like that, sweetpea, you just gotta be strong.
2007-07-06 04:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by sue-sue 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He won't, so change your name and move out of the country.
2007-07-06 04:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by Deleted 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Walk. I did.
2007-07-06 04:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by Iggy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋